MUSE-INGS: “Just BE Who You Are!”

Be true to who you are.  Be your authentic self.  Just be you.

Does that concept confuse you?  Who ARE you, really?  Do you know?

It seems that we are supposed to know easily just who we are.  We can define the roles that we play: wife, mother, sister, grandmother, teacher, student, friend, etc.  But, does that really address who we are inside?  Who we were born to be in the Universe’s great scheme of things?  I think not.

So how do you answer the question of ‘Who are you, really?’

Try right now, for a few minutes, to come up with a good answer for that.  Don’t answer with what your roles are, or what your job is, or what your task for the day is, but really examine your inner being for some guidance here.  You are, of course, all of those roles, and all of the jobs and tasks, but there is something behind all of that that is very important for you to discover.

Who are you, really?

If you play with that idea, and catch yourself defining yourself by external measurements, then you will, at some point, start to get deeper answers that become more meaningful to you.  Are you hearing something about being a Being of Light?  Are you a Beacon?  Are you a Touchstone for others?  Are you a Giver?  A Listener?  A Timeless Spirit with a Gift to Share?  Who are you, really?

The possibilities are endless but they are not the same as ‘wife, mother, teacher, sister, etc.’ are they?

Bring your attention to how it feels as you explore who you really are.  Are you feeling confused?  Frustrated?  Angry?  Elated?  What are you feeling?  This will give you a clue about how close you are coming to the true answer to the question.

For many people, the answer to ‘Who am I?’ brings with it a feeling of the immense size of that answer.  And with that feeling of immensity comes the doubting energy that says, ‘Who do you think you are to be something that big?’  Am I right?  Did you hear that voice or something like it?  Well, let me tell you that that is not the voice of your inner self assisting you in accessing your authenticity, for who are you NOT to be that big?

The Universe and Mother Earth conspired to have you exist on this Planet at this time for the purpose of assisting the unfolding of the Universe’s Grand Plan.  You must step into your power, be the ‘who’ that you were born to be, so that you can fulfill your part in this Plan.  Who do you think you are to deny the Universe and Mother Earth your participation in this unfolding Grand Plan?  Aha, we have you there, right?

Thinking small and playing small do not serve you or anyone else.  Be the person you were born to be.  And do not worry about what you are to do.  ‘Being’ is more important than ‘doing.’  The ‘doing’ must follow from the ‘being’ who you are.

And Joy, a deep, abiding, inner sense of Joy, is the promised reward.

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MYSTIC MESSAGE: from The Divine Feminine: “Joy — the Reward for Being Who You Really Are!”

Dear Ones,

Joy is a gift that you give yourself when you do the inner work required to experience personal and spiritual growth.  Think about how important it is to do the work, constantly and devotedly, to live a Conscious Life.  You cannot take ‘time off’ from this work.  But it does not need to be tedious.

When you make the commitment to live consciously you open yourself to the awareness of Life that starts within you.  Everything you do or think is then focused through the lens of the greater picture of how you live, what you choose and how you fit into the fabric of the Universe in a given moment.  Once you have learned the importance of becoming awake and aware at all times, you cannot go back to sleep.  Oh, you can choose at times to act as if you are ignorant of what we are saying, but there will always be a part of you that is longing for that consciousness of the greater import of what you are choosing and how you are living your life.

And Joy is the reward for living the Conscious Life!  This Joy of which we speak is the Joy that resides deep within you, that cannot be shaken by outer circumstances.  You will feel this deep Joy when you are staying awake and aware of the choices you make in a given day.  Noticing what is required of you by the others around you gives you a hint of the consequences of choosing to go back to sleep. People need for you to stay awake.  People around you have a need for you to be who you are, at all times.  When you find yourself believing that you must put up a false front for someone, question whether that person really needs to be in your life at this time.

Think about that.  If you cannot be yourself, your true, authentic, self, at all times with a person, then why are you in relationship with that person?  Time is speeding up for humans on Planet Earth at this time and there is no time to waste playing the game of being a different person for each other person with whom you interact.  Do you feel that you are walking on eggshells around a certain person because you cannot relax and be who you are?  Are you concerned about losing the love or respect of someone because you do not have the energy to keep up the pretense of being what they want or expect instead of who you really are?

Own your very essence, the true being that you are at your core.  The time for pretense has long passed.  Now is the time for authenticity.  Do you struggle with knowing who you really are?  Are you concerned that you have lost touch with your authentic inner self?  Then get some help in that discovery.  Go inside.  Consult with a guide.  Meditate or journal or work with someone until you know, with certainty, who you are.

For you are very important to the Plan of the Universe as it is unfolding.  The 21st Century is a time where this Plan is developing and expanding and manifesting the reality of the rest of the Century and you play an integral part in that Plan.  But first you must be clear about who you are.  Then you must be that and only that.

And we promise you that Joy is the reward you will receive for committing to be your authentic self in the World!

And so it is.

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WHERE’S ROSEMARY

Here is an update on my meanderings while I travel and tour the West Coast:

***I’m in Los Angeles***
until August 31  I am here for another week planning and launching programs. I am visiting venues and offering my signature talk and system to help You Live Your Richest Life! And I am continuing my Intuitive Coaching Program for individuals and groups, offering additional Conversations with The Other Side and planning my West Coast Tour featuring a special presentation: Are You Ready for 2012?.

Stay tuned to this blog for specific announcements.

Contact me for details; I’d love to catch up!

***Baeth Davis’ Gifted Event in Phoenix***
September 5 to September 9  I will be in Phoenix beginning on Labor Day for a special event with Baeth and will then attend her Gifted, Using Your Gifts to Live Your Purpose conference. I know many of you will be there with me! I’m looking forward to reconnecting. I am available on Tuesday, September 6th, for private sessions; and I am hosting a Conversation with The Other Side Tuesday evening:

  • Are you curious about what happens when we die?
  • Are you wondering if there is some guidance available for your life that you haven’t yet tapped into?
  • Would you like to hear what a loved who has crossed over to The Other Side wants to say to you?

If you are in Phoenix this is your opportunity to learn more about and get in touch with The Other Side!

Reserve a space for the Conversation early – they are limited!

***Ali Brown’s MPC Retreat in Phoenix***
September 22 to 24  I hope to see all my MPC buddies at the beautiful Montelucia Resort! For you, I will be offering a few discounted private session appointments at the event. And I am hosting a Conversation with The Other Side Saturday evening after the event!

Reserve a space for the Conversation early – they are limited!

***West Coast Tour with the Itinerant Intuitive: “Are You Ready for 2012?”***
September 2 to October 15  My West Coast Tour features Are You Ready for 2012? – a talk and series of channeled messages about the events and conditions we have to look forward to in this much-talked-about year ahead! I will also be offering my signature talk: From Astrophysics to Metaphysics: Trust Intuition and  Live Your Richest Life! and Conversations with The Other Side at several locations and venues. Here are the planning locations and dates for the tour:

Sedona – September 2 to 4

Phoenix – September 5 to 10

LA – September 10 to 21

Phoenix – September 22 to 24

Tucson – September 25 to 26

The Bay Area – September 28 to October 2.

Portland  – October 3 to October 6.

Seattle/Whidbey Island – October 7 to October 11.

Sacramento – October 12 to 18 (Katrina Sawa’s Jump Start Your Biz Weekend Intensive.)

I do hope you can join me in RosemarySpace!

Contact me for details about an event near you!

NEWS FROM ROSEMARY

Mercury goes Direct today – hallelujah! Have you noticed that this Mercury Retrograde has been a difficult one? There certainly seems to have been a lot of chatter on Facebook about it! But with Mercury heading back to normal maybe our communications can get unfarbled and clearer than they have been. I certainly hope so!

We also have a New Moon happening on August 28th so we can march forward with our plans and start new things. What are you looking for in your Life that is new? This is the time to invite it in. Create some new affirmations for your desires and welcome in those energies.

I’ve been thinking about the DC earthquake as I sit safely in California while my family in Maryland recovers and then prepares for a possible hurricane. Mother Earth’s furies can take violent turns but we must wonder if she is trying to ‘shake us up’ so we can get out of our lethargy and into the action of becoming who we are meant to be. These are pretty dramatic signs that something needs to be shifted around!

If you’re looking at shifting energies and thinking about your personal path of growth, then this is a good time to schedule your complimentary Strategy Session so we can identify your challenges and obstacles and help to get a path ahead charted for you. Send me an email and we can get your free 15-minute call on the calendar! rosemary@TheScientificMystic.com

Next week I’ll be writing to you from beautiful Sedona, Arizona! If you’re in that area [or Phoenix] please connect with me!

Have a great week and see if you can tell that Mercury Retrograde is over! I’m hoping my phones [two cell phones, different carriers] will stop dropping calls!

BOOK LIGHTS: “The Astonishing Power of Emotions: Let Your Feelings Be Your Guide” by Esther and Jerry Hicks [The Teachings of Abraham™]

“Most people want to be loved. They want to be appreciated, and they want to be understood. But the trouble with those desires is that you cannot control whether someone else appreciates or loves or understands.”

Esther and Jerry Hicks [The Teachings of Abraham™]

You CAN, however, appreciate or love or understand when you reach out to others. Remember that you attract that which you put out into the Universe. So if you want a relationship where the other person is seeing you as you wish to be seen, then you must first make the effort to see them through a clear lens that allows them to be who they are. Your efforts will improve all your relationships.

MUSE-INGS: Clean the Lens or Change the Prescription!

Relationships. Always a challenge. Always an opportunity. Always a potential source of joy.

Sometimes we think immediately of an intimate or love relationship when we hear the word, but we are in relationships with others whether they be long term, intimate or just the person who is the cashier at the grocery store. Do you think of relationships in this way?

When a grocery cashier seems to be having a bad day or appears grumpy, what is your reaction? Do you get grumpy in response or do you get understanding and sympathetic? When your child is angry and upset and possibly screaming at you, do you react in kind or do you try to look at things from their perspective? When your partner has upset you, are you in reactive mode or thoughtful mode to see what you are really feeling and which lens you are looking through?

I was working with a client recently and received this guidance for her: Give yourself permission to have the reaction but choose the best response. You don’t have to follow through with the reaction. You have options to respond a different way. It can be easy to keep going with the initial knee-jerk reaction but when you are living a Conscious Life you hit the pause button, notice the reaction but choose the appropriate response.

For example, those of us who are helpers tend to jump to help another when we perceive the need. But is this the best response? Are we looking through our own lens and not allowing them to have theirs? Our reaction might be to jump in and help but perhaps the best response is to support them in finding their own solution.

Or someone might be angry and our immediate reaction is to feel that they are angry at us. They might not even be noticing us at the time but we react to their anger without pausing to see if that is the best response for us to choose at the time. Maybe our Dad hit us when he was angry and the little child in us is afraid that will happen again whenever we are around anger. Or we had a lover once who shouted angrily just before they stormed out of the door, never to be seen again, and we are reacting with our fear of being abandoned again.

There is always so much more going on in any relationship than meets the eye at the surface of things. Allow yourself the freedom to take time to notice where you are in your own feelings as you relate to others. Are YOU having a bad day and the grocery cashier being slow allows you to vent your feelings on them? Is your partner really upsetting you or are you already upset about something and they are merely triggering your reaction?

Be conscious of your feelings. If you need to, then practice going inside to assess what is true for you in this present moment. Your lens has been created by all of your life experiences and it exists at an unconscious level within you. It’s not something that you can access through analysis or your mind. You must learn to feel your feelings and to express them appropriately. But this can only happen if you take time to do the inner work, uncover what exists at the unconscious level and bring it into your awareness.

The most important relationship you have is the one with yourself. Are you looking at yourself through a harsh, judgmental lens, created from your past experiences? Or is your lens foggy with misconceptions or blurry images that you haven’t taken the time to examine and clear up? Maybe the place to start is to work on this internal relationship first. Then you can change the prescription on your lens and see all your other relationships in a new light!

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from The Divine Feminine: Relationship Rx — Time for a New Prescription?

Dear Ones,

The heart of a person is never operating in a way that is fully visible to others. Remember this in all your personal interactions.

Each person has a series of experiences in their past that influence their feelings in any given moment. From birth onward they have had feelings, emotions, experiences that have shaped them into the person they are today. As you have been shaped by your life, you must understand that every person around you has also been shaped by theirs. Can you find an understanding place within you so that you accept every other person just as they are without judgment or analysis or condemnation?

Think of a recent interaction with someone that you wish had gone differently. This doesn’t necessarily mean an angry confrontation or anything you would deem negative, just something that you wish had taken a different path. Now think of that person as a little child in that situation, where they were probably operating from a position where they didn’t have the same information that you had about that situation. Might you see that their choices were based on only the information that they had at the time, not on what you knew or had experience with, but only on their limited experience? Perhaps it triggered a remembrance of something they had already experienced and so they responded as they had before. Or perhaps they chose a different response to seek a different result.

When you try on the perspective of another person, you are working from a place where you have all the insights of your perspective but can see that they might have been looking at things differently. We hope that this gives you a feeling of understanding and comprehension of what is going on in any interaction.

Other people are not you. They have a different way of seeing life and themselves. They are the product of all their experiences to date and they can only look through the lens of those experiences. You have not had the same experiences. Your lens is not the same as theirs. You must understand this if your interpersonal relationships are to be successful.

Some people teach that you must learn to forgive, but the definition of forgiveness does not come from this place of understanding. You have no obligation to become a doormat to others, or to forgive something that has injured or harmed you. Forgiveness is not saying, ‘It’s all right,’ although that is how many interpret forgiveness.

True forgiveness is the understanding that there is nothing to forgive, in this old sense of the word. Everybody is doing the best they can with the resources they have at any given moment. You might wish they had more or different resources, but they are doing the best they can. Forgiveness from this perspective means ‘I understand that you are looking through your personal lens and I choose not to take into myself the energy of owning your choices and your perspective.’ When you make a decision about how you will react, how you respond to something, you are choosing whether to take that trigger into yourself or let it pass through.

At the same time you must decide whether or not you are going to place yourself in this situation again in the future. Too many times it is easier to let something go that has disturbed you, allow feelings of anger or resentment or worse fester within you, and yet you do not make the choice to distance yourself from the other person. Or you do not express appropriately the feelings that you are having to inform that person [and, thus, to give them more resources/information] so that they can make the choice to change their behavior if they wish.

Relationships are not about two people always seeing eye to eye because no two people have had the same experiences to bring to their connection with each other. Relationships that thrive do so because each individual has found a way to remain their own person while allowing the other person to also remain an individual, different but agreeing on seeing things through different, very personal lenses.

Remember this in all your interactions with others!

And so it is.

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Where’s Rosemary?

This is a new addition to WisdomConnections, a post starting Monday to let everyone know where I am on my tour. I am currently in the early stages of my 1st ever West Coast Tour. For the next several Mondays we are posting my schedule, the highlights, the venues and the events where you can find me in RosemarySpace.

***For Now I’m in Los Angeles***
Arrived August 10, here until August 31:

I am settling into my new routine in LA, sharing some valuable time with a wonderful friend who has invited me to stay with her for a while and scheduling programs. I am visiting venues and seeking opportunities to offer my signature talk and system to help You Live Your Richest Life! And I am offering Intuitive Coaching to individuals and groups, Conversations with The Other Side and some new tele-classes “live from LA”.

I will also be planning the details for my Tour, featuring a special presentation: Are You Ready for 2012?

Stay tuned to this blog for specific announcements.
Contact me for details; I’d love to catch up!

***On iTunes find me at The Scientific Mystic Show with Rosemary Bredeson***
Episode #5 is available today! And it’s FREE!

This is my “radio” show which I am recording each month and making available for FREE on my website, through FaceBook, my blog and on iTunes. You can find it by searching for The Scientific Mystic Show. The show consists of three segments: a Mystic Message I channel from The Divine Feminine, commentary on the message and a Q&A period. Each show is filled with Guidance for Conscious Living to help you “Live Your Richest Life!”

And the latest Episode #5 is available now.
Tune in to show #5  on this blog!

***Baeth Davis’ Gifted Event in Phoenix***
September 5 to September 9

I will be in Phoenix beginning on Labor Day for a special event with Baeth and will then attend her Gifted, Using Your Gifts to Live Your Purpose conference. I know many of you will be there with me! I’m looking forward to reconnecting. I am available on Tuesday, September 6th, for private sessions; and I am hosting a Conversation with The Other Side Tuesday evening, the 6th!
Reserve a space for the Conversation early – they are limited!

***Ali Brown’s MPC Retreat in Phoenix***
September 22 to 24

I hope to see all my MPC buddies at the beautiful Montelucia Resort! For you, I will be offering a few discounted private session appointments at the event. And, I am hosting a Conversation with The Other Side Saturday evening, the 24th!
Reserve a space for the Conversation early – they are limited!

***West Coast Tour with the Itinerant Intuitive: “Are You Ready for 2012?”***
September 2 to October 15

My West Coast Tour features Are You Ready for 2012? – a talk and series of channeled messages about the events and conditions we have to look forward to in this much-talked-about year ahead! I will also be offering my signature talk: From Astrophysics to Metaphysics: Trust Intuition and Live Your Richest Life! and Conversations with The Other Side at several locations and venues. Here are the planned locations and dates for the tour:

Sedona – September 2 to 4

Phoenix – September 5 to 10

LA – September 10 to 21

Phoenix – September 22 to 24

Tucson – September 25 to 26

The Bay Area – September 28 to October 2.

Portland – October 3 to October 6.

Seattle/Whidbey Island – October 7 to October 11.

Sacramento – October 12 to 18 (Katrina Sawa’s Jump Start Your Biz Weekend Intensive.)

Reno – October 18 to 20

I do hope you can join me in RosemarySpace!

NEWS FROM ROSEMARY

Hello from Sunny Southern California! I am thoroughly enjoying my time in this beautiful state, although the trip has had some excitement so far. My wonderful husband, Richard, left to head back to our home in Colorado and accidentally took my cell phone charger with him. One of the dangers of having identical phones! So the Mercury retrograde has certainly had an impact on communications for me! This retrograde is only until August 26th, though, so we’re most of the way through. Still, be careful on the roads as drivers can be distracted and communications can be interrupted.

As I’m getting settled in to my sojourn in California, I am scheduling events up and down the West Coast for my Tour. If you know of a place that I should hook up with, please send me an email to rosemary@TheScientificMystic.com. And if you’d like to attend one of my talks, let me know and I’ll register you for the place closest to you. If you’re not on the West Coast, I might be coming to your area soon, and I will also be offering these talks via video conference so stay tuned for the late Fall schedule.

The Sun is getting ready to leave my birth sign, Leo, and move into Virgo. Take advantage of these next few days to use the fiery, positive energy of Leo to help you move into action on what you’ve been keeping in reserve. The key words for Leo are: I Will. Get out there! Lovely, detail-oriented Virgo energy comes in on August 23rd and will help you to flesh out the programs you start in Leo. Virgo’s key words are: I Analyze.

It’s time. Just as I am stepping into touring on the West Coast this year, ask yourself how you can step out in a bigger way to accomplish your mission on Earth. What do you need to clear away? How do you need to adjust the lens through which you see the world? Let your Fall Cleaning include some inner work to clear out that inner clutter. Would you like to schedule a no-cost Strategy Session with me? These 15-minute calls can be enlightening as we discuss your challenges and opportunities for moving forward. Send an email to rosemary@TheScientificMystic.com to get your Strategy Session on the schedule.

Sending lots of Leo love out to you this week!

The Scientific Mystic Show #5 with Rosemary Bredeson

Rosemary Bredeson's Radio Show

Welcome to The Scientific Mystic Show #5

This show is in three 8-minute segments which have been combined for this post:
Segment One is The Mystic Message from The Divine Feminine
as channeled by Rosemary.
Segment Two is Rosemary’s Mystic Musings about the message
and how you may relate to it.
And, Segment Three is Ask the Muse, the Question and Answer Segment.

Please remember to email your questions to me and I’ll answer them on the show:

Email me here!

The following link takes you to the podcast of Show #5. Just click on the link to play all three 8-minute segments:

The Scientific Mystic Show #5 with Rosemary Bredeson

Our thanks to Mark Rees for hosting this show!

And, our special thanks to Michael Reese who has generously offered his music for the show! The music is from  Stratocanyons, an album in his Guitarscapes series. You can find him on http://www.cdbaby.com!

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