NEWS FROM ROSEMARY

The West Coast Tour 2011 is in full swing – I’m in the Pacific Northwest this week.  If you’re in the Seattle area I’d love to see you!  There are a couple of Conversations with The Other Side scheduled – October 9 and October 11.  Check the details here: http://TheScientificMystic.com/theotherside.html

It’s been a wonderful journey so far, connecting with friends and spending time alone in my car.  I’ve never really been a car trip lover but I’m finding this has been fun.  Sometimes I put on the Sirius XM Spa channel and think/plan/dream and other times I’m singing along with the Broadway channel [glad no one else can hear me!].  There’s something wonderful, too, about spending a night or two with a friend where you can really connect on a deeper level than over an occasional meal or at a meeting or in a phone call.  It’s been like ‘pajama party time’ for me and I’m grateful for the friendships I have in my life.  Thank you to my hosts!

My friend in San Jose, Yvonne Ohumukini Urness, and I traded sessions and had some very powerful experiences together.  She helped me to outline the offerings in my programs and there are some exciting things coming up – woo hoo!  Stay tuned for announcements this Fall about new programs to help you find Certainty in These Uncertain Times – because that is my wish for all of you.

Along the journey I am meeting some wonderful new people and it’s a joy to welcome you to RosemarySpace.  It’s always fun to work one-on-one with new folks and to see them enjoying confidence in the next step forward.  Thanks to all who have been referring people to me.  When you know that the work can benefit a friend it’s a gift to connect them with the help that is available.  This is why I value referrals so much – someone cares enough about a friend or loved one to suggest that they coach with me to improve relationships, grow business, make decisions about career or life, and often it’s all three!

Did you see that glorious waxing moon last week?  As I drove up California I could see the sliver of a New Moon getting ready to set over the Pacific.  Magical.  And it reminded me that there is always something new coming into my life that can be magical if I let it, if I welcome it.  We learn from everything, joy and pain, and we can grow if we let ourselves.  The Full Moon is on October 11th when we release the old from our life.  Until then, keep bringing in and valuing the New.

But this week I am welcoming back something ‘old’ into my life – my hubby!  It’s been a period of growth but I’m ready to be together moving forward.  We’ve been apart for 3 ½ weeks, the longest separation in our 30 years together.  We’ve worked on ourselves and have each had responsibilities to discharge, we’ve talked and emailed several times each day, and we’ve grown.  Now it’s time to move into a new chapter in our lives.  Seattle, Sacramento [will we see you at Katrina Sawa’s event?], then Colorado Springs, Dallas, and on to Maryland.  Quite a journey with an amazing destination filled with family and old and new friends.  Enjoy your journey this week!

Have a special Autumn week!

BOOK LIGHTS: from “The 12 Secrets of Highly Successful Women: A Portable Life Coach for Creative Women” by Gail McMeekin

“You have to decide that you want transformation with your whole being.”

Gail McMeekin

This is the best quote about making choices in your life!  Decide.  Do you want transformation or are you satisfied with the status quo?  Do you want to keep growing?  If yes, then decide ‘with your whole being.’  Every choice you make should be like this.  Energize your choices with all your life force to propel you in the direction of your dreams. You can get there!

MUSE-INGS: You Choose!

Seems this message keeps popping up, doesn’t it?  ‘You are always at choice in your life.’

I used to argue with the Universe about this one.  ‘But what about [fill in the blank] where I don’t feel I had any choice?’  The answer always seemed to have been, ‘You could have chosen to do nothing. You felt that you had to make a choice because you didn’t like the consequences of not choosing or of choosing other options.’  That was correct.

So how in your life today are you making a choice that you don’t realize is a choice?  Look first at those things that you feel are ‘givens’ in your life, the things that feel as if they can never be different.  So often these are the places where we must begin to reclaim our power by observing the ways in which we take away our own ability to choose by refusing to see that we have an ability to make a choice.

Often the most powerful moments in a coaching session come when the client begins to see that they actually have a choice in a situation in which they were feeling trapped, believing that there was no choice other than the one they had made.  Opening up to the possibility that you have chosen something, that decisions you have made along the way have brought you to this moment, does not have to feel like a criticism or a judgment – it is really just an observation.  And it is an empowering observation.

Are you in a job that is not satisfying?  Didn’t you make the choice to accept that job?

Are you in a marriage that is not fulfilling?  Didn’t you choose to marry that person?

The list goes on, and what matters is not that you beat yourself up for making that choice, but that you see there are choices now that you can make to change things.  If you believe that you cannot leave your marriage, then you must realize that there are reasons that you are choosing to stay but that you CAN leave, you just choose not to [perhaps for some very good reasons, but you still have a choice].  Do you feel that you cannot leave your job because there are no jobs out there?  You CAN leave your job but you might like the paycheck more than the uncertainty of finding another job.

Owning your power to choose can make a huge difference in living a conscious life.  When you view your life as filled with choice, then you become empowered to grow, to move forward, to reach for your dreams.  If you continue to view yourself as the victim then you are stopped dead in the water, unable to muster the energy or the power to direct your path forward toward your dreams.

Which way do you choose to live?  Choose to be a victim and stay stuck or choose to see yourself as empowered to make choices and move in the direction of your dreams.  It really is up to you.

I remember a time when I was just old enough for my parents to leave me at home alone.  The family was going to visit grandparents and I wanted to stay home alone.  My parents allowed me to make that choice.  But as soon as they pulled away from the curb, I wished I had gone with them.  I think I was exercising the right to choose without thinking about what the consequences of that choice might be.  I was suddenly lonely.  But I had made my choice.  And I made a different choice the next time based on what I learned, the feedback I received after that first choice.

This is the cycle that is empowering.  Make a choice. Notice the results of that choice.  Analyze the feedback and decide to continue making that choice or to make a new choice.

You can change your life but only when you realize that you are able to make choices.

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MYSTIC MESSAGE from The Divine Feminine: Learn to Discern and Choose!

Dear Ones,

There are people around you who are misleading you about the way that the Universe operates and they are doing this in subtle ways that may not be easily discernible by you.  We wish to educate you with this message.

When you are told that you can’t have something, you are really being told ‘We (whoever that is) don’t want you to have this.’  This is not about politics or governments, but about people who believe they have the right to control another person’s life and decisions.

You are a Child of the Universe and, as such, your only contract is with the Universe, or Source, or God/Goddess.  Other people cannot deny you that which you desire because they are not the ones with whom you have an agreement about your life.  You are the one who makes the choices about how you will live your life.  You are, in every moment, able to make choices.

We know that there are many of you encountering these words who are already thinking about those situations in which you feel you have no control, but we would tell you to look for the aspects of those situations where you have the ability to make decisions.  Understand that you have made decisions in the past that have led up to this present situation.  This is not a criticism or a judgment.  It is a statement of fact.

If you don’t like your job, then remember that you agreed to take that position.  Even if you feel that you had no choice because it was the only opportunity at that time, you still had the option of taking no job, although that option might have brought with it some unpleasant consequences.  You will never feel empowered in your life until you see that you always have the power to make a choice.

When others try to control you by keeping you fearful of something, whether real or imagined or described as dangerous when it is not, then they are trying to steal your power of choice away from you.  When someone tells you that you can’t get a job making over $100,000 per year or that you can’t drive a luxury car or you can’t meet a partner who is wonderful or you can’t sell your house or retire or travel, then you must understand that they are merely demonstrating their own limiting beliefs.  You do not need to agree with them.

On one day, the economic news is disheartening, on the next it is encouraging.  The statistics about something are disturbing one day, hopeful the next.  There is nothing being told to the population that has all the truth within it.  Every report is slanted, sometimes by the omission of other information that is available, and sometimes on the ignorance or lack of understanding of the reporter.  Sometimes the report has been deliberately manipulated.

None of this matters, though, because you are responsible for making the choices in your life.  You must sort through information to decide what resonates with you.  The tool that helps you to do this is to learn to connect with your Inner Guidance to discover what is accurate in your world in this moment for you,

Go within, for the answers to your question reside there.  Make your choices after you have consulted your Inner Guidance.  Explore ideas within yourself, or with a guide who can help you determine what you feel, believe and need.

Run away from those who would try to force their will on you, or who purport to have all the answers for you so that you don’t have to think for yourself.  You are always at choice in your life. Sometimes it is best for you to ignore what you are being told from the outside and listen to the voice on the inside.  And if the inner voice seems to be judging or criticizing or demeaning, then get some help in clearing that voice so that you can connect with your true inner wisdom.

You’ll feel much more empowered when you are living your life from this place of connection!

And so it is.

NEWS FROM ROSEMARY

The ‘Itinerant Intuitive’ is on the move!  I spent most of September in Arizona and last week had a great mastermind experience at the retreat in Scottsdale with Ali Brown and James Roche and the rest of the MPC Platinum group.  I hope you can see the orbs that appeared in this picture of Ali and James with me!  Another picture from the retreat also had orbs – pretty cool!  [If you aren’t familiar with orbs, there is a lot of research available and the stories are fascinating.]

I have left Santa Ana [thank you very much for hosting me, Grace Heer!] and am working my way up the West Coast of the US.  This week finds me in San Jose and San Francisco, California, then Portland, Oregon and Whidbey Island, Seattle and Issaquah, Washington before returning to California to do events in Sacramento with Katrina Sawa.  It is a very busy Fall but, if you are near these areas, please do join us at the events or in a private session to get your questions answered and get ready to move forward in your life.

What area of your life are you feeling that you have no choice about how to move forward?  What is holding you back?  What options do you have?  These are the kind of questions that we work with in private sessions.  What do you need to examine so that you can feel unstuck and find relaxation and happiness in your life?  You can explore with me all of this and find the answers that give you assurance about the choices you are making.  Contact me for a no-cost Strategy Session if you would like to discover how a private session can help you to gain the confidence you need to make the decisions that you face.  Email: rosemary@TheScientificMystic.com

The New Moon occurred on Tuesday, September 27, 2011 and brought with it the energy that helps us to make new choices, remake decisions that no longer serve us, and bring in something new to help us in the next 2 weeks.  Take advantage of the Equinox bringing more balance to us and the New Moon inviting us to look for the new that we desire in our life.  The heavens are supporting you this week!

Make it a great week!

BOOK LIGHTS: “Think and Grow Rich” by Napoleon Hill

“The ‘Master Mind’ may be defined as: ‘Coordination of knowledge and effort, in a spirit of harmony, between two or more people, for the attainment of a definite purpose. No individual may have great power without availing himself of the ‘Master Mind.’”

Napoleon Hill

Creating your Tribe, or finding it, supports you and your growth because like minds can ‘Master Mind’ and help each other find solutions to life’s problems.  You want someone at the same energetic level of development as yourself to be assisting you in seeking solutions.  This is the best reason to find a Tribe, a group to whom you can bring your issues without fear of criticism and where you can find support in exploring your personal power as you grow.  If you can’t find an existing group to join, start your own!  Napoleon Hill saw the value in this in 1937.

MUSE-INGS: Create Your Tribe!

In Western culture we don’t often use the word ‘tribe’ to describe a group of people.  We talk about ‘community’ or ‘social group’ or some other collection of individuals, but maybe we should start saying ‘tribe.’  For don’t we all need a sense of belonging to some group or groups?

When is the last time that you made a new friend?  Do you always hang out with the people that you’ve known since high school even though they sometimes embarrass you or don’t understand you or even mock or make fun of you?  Have you ever looked around your ‘group’ and wondered if there were any member with whom you could share your innermost thoughts, your desires, your wishes and hopes for the future?  Maybe it’s time for you to examine who your tribe really is.

I’ve been attending seminars and retreats lately with different teachers/mentors and I’m finding that I like the overlap of my tribe members at these gatherings.  We’re all seekers and we seem to be sharing the journey by studying with the same teachers.  It’s a nice feeling to be able to know that these folks understand my language, that they are asking themselves the same questions I am asking myself.  We have created a history together over time and we support each other in our successes and our trials.  We know healthy boundaries and we respect each other’s but we also know how to support and bolster and share suggestions that honor and respect the other.  The tribe knows how to work together while supporting individual choices and processes.

I was recently introduced to an amazing lady in California.  Margie is 91 years old and retired last year after working in the same place for 23 years.  That means she started there at age 67!  Her husband died a long time ago and she lives in a beautiful house on the ocean.  She told me about a neighbor who became ill with cancer and during her 2-year illness the whole neighborhood joined together to support the family.  The woman died at the end of the 2 years but the neighborhood has remained a close community of folks since that experience.  Margie honored the woman’s memory by continuing to be a part of the ‘tribe’ that she had created.

Where in your life is there the possibility of creating a tribe?  Is there a group of which you are already a member that you might start thinking about as a tribe?  And, conversely, is there a group that you have joined that no longer resonates with the person you are on your personal and spiritual journey?  Why are you staying in that group?  Are they really your tribe?

I think a tribe begins with just 2 people of like mind.  It is fostered by mutual support and caring.  Others gather because they resonate with the energy of the original 2 or 3 or 4.  And a tribe is created.

Pay some attention this week to the groups in which you participate.  Step outside yourself and observe if you feel supported in this group.  Are you the best you can be?  Are you relaxing and being yourself with these people or must you put up a façade to fit in?  Notice how you feel before, during and after being with this group.  Are you uplifted?  Do you feel you are growing through your connections?

Become conscious of how your body is giving you signals about the people with whom you associate.  You’ll know if there is an uncomfortable energy incompatibility.  And you’ll know if you are resonating with the group and want to spend more time with them.

Explore or create your Tribes!

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MYSTIC MESSAGE from The Divine Feminine: Are You Tribal?

Dear Ones,

In ancient times people were not confused about who was in their tribe.  There were clear delineations between groups based usually on geography but often on attributes.  Tribal connections run deep in the human memory.  So who is your 21st Century Tribe?

Do you know who is your Tribe?  Do you immediately think of your nuclear family or the family of blood relatives?  These people might be a part of one of your tribes but you have many tribes of which you are a member.  Because people are so mobile at this time in history people are banding together to create tribes based on many myriad factors.

One tribe might gather around a certain kind of music.  Another around parenting children of a similar age or circumstance.  In many workplaces the coworkers have created a tribal feeling with each other.  Some neighborhoods have created tribes.  And international tribes are not uncommon with the ease of travel among many nations and even continents.

You might wonder why it is important to define a tribe.

At this time in your Planet’s history people need to band together with like-minded individuals so that they can support each other through the coming changes.  No longer will geography or blood determine the connections but it will be like thought and the energy of community support that will cause people to band together in a tribe.  Those who are on a path of personal growth will need to find others to connect with for support on the journey.  Those who have reached higher levels of consciousness will be seeking others at that level or above to join in the search for even greater awareness. People will not be able to stay connected with others who hold them back from or don’t support them in their spiritual growth.

It is time for every individual to examine what they believe and to determine the source of that belief.  If it is generational, as in handed down in their family from a generation of a past age, then it might be time to discard or dismiss the belief.  If it was generated in your childhood then you must reexamine that belief in the context of what you know now in your adult life.  If you are blindly following what someone else has told you is true then you must pause and examine that belief – is it really true for you at this time?

The Tribe that comes together around a commonality of ideas and beliefs will have similar vibratory frequency signatures.  This is the definition of ‘community compatibility.’  When someone of much lower or much higher vibration attempts to join this Tribe, the frequencies will be too far apart for everyone to feel comfortable and there can be discord.

Take it upon yourself to find your Tribe now.  Who is reaching as you are for expanded awareness?  Who around you is limiting themselves by thinking small-mindedly and refusing to grow?  With whom do you feel the most support and can you support them in their personal growth?

Who lights up your heart when you are with them?  Create a Tribe if you must, or join one that resonates with you.  It is important to belong to a community and this is the best criteria for determining that community.

And so it is.

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NEWS FROM ROSEMARY

Today’s ezine is coming to you from warm Phoenix again.  I am attending the MPC Platinum Retreat with Ali Brown and James Roche and my Platinum Tribe.  What wonderful entrepreneurs I have met through this gathering of people!  My gracious host, Grace Heer, in Santa Ana, California is one of the folks in my tribe and we continue to be friends beyond the business connection in this Club.

Last week I was with my Baeth Davis Tribe at the Gifted Event in Phoenix and I got to share some time at David Neagle’s event in LA this week with some of those tribe members.  It’s good to have a Tribe and even better to have Tribes!  I do feel supported.

As I move up the West Coast of the US in coming weeks I will be visiting with members of my various Tribes.  I am looking forward to spending time catching up with some I haven’t seen in a while and to deepening some newer connections.  If you live in or near the cities I’m visiting I do hope we can connect for a coffee or one of my events while I’m in your area.  Please keep checking the calendar as new events are being added often.

The recent Conversations with The Other Side have had some amazing messages coming through.  Since people are asking to host a Conversation but their guests are not all in the same area, we will be offering this event as a video conference where guests and attendees can see me and the others through the magic of the internet.  Please let me know if you’d like to host an online Conversation with The Other Side so that you and your friends can receive guidance from your angel or guide or loved one who has crossed over.  A powerful event!  The first online Conversation will be hosted in Australia!

Happy Autumnal Equinox!  On this day of equal light/dark we are reminded to seek balance in our lives.  What can you do today that will help you to bring more balance into your life?  And how can you get ready for the coming season? [To our friends Down Under congratulations on breaking free of the bonds of Winter so that you can enjoy the Spring of new birth!]  Here in the Northern Hemisphere we must all be like the squirrels, gathering nuts and storing them away for the coming cold days.  I am looking forward to releasing our house in Colorado to its new owners and to moving our lives over to Maryland where most of the family lives.  What big shifts are you preparing for?

BOOK LIGHTS: “The Astonishing Power of Emotions: Let Your Feelings Be Your Guide” by Esther and Jerry Hicks [The Teachings of Abraham™]

“The key to creating everything that you desire is to find a way to turn to the better-feeling, downstream thoughts, even when the current situation does not evoke it from you, and to use your willpower to focus your thoughts in the direction of your desire and who-you-really-are, rather than using your willpower to try to produce action against the Current.”
[italics are the authors’]

Esther and Jerry Hicks [The Teachings of Abraham™]

Use your feelings as a guide to what you truly desire from the deep place of ‘who-you-really-are.’  Downstream thoughts allow your desires to manifest and upstream thoughts fight against what is your true desire.  ‘Healing’ is upstream, focusing on the need to cure the disease.  ‘Allowing wellness’ is downstream, flowing toward the wellness with ease.  ‘I need to get money’ is upstream.  ‘I receive the abundance that I desire’ is downstream, moving toward the abundance with ease.  Deep inside you lie your heart’s desires.  Access them and allow them to manifest.