Dear Ones,
It is time. Time for you to get serious about what really matters to you in your life. Are you being consistent? Do you say, for example, that family is important to you but do you spend all your time working? Do you say that your personal growth is important but sports are taking up so much time that you have no time left to work on yourself? Do you think that taking care of yourself is selfish and so you focus on giving to others until you are totally depleted and have nothing left to give, to others or to yourself?
There are so many ways that your life can reflect choices that do not seem to be consistent with what you believe to be your highest values. We would tell you that time is speeding up, in ways you probably wouldn’t understand yet, but that you don’t have time to ‘play dumb’ with the time that you have. In any given day your needs must be met in a shorter period of time than you used to have to focus on yourself. There are many demands on your time and the days actually do seem to be getting shorter, not just in daylight hours in the Northern Hemisphere! So let us tell you why it is so important that you take time for yourself, every day.
The Universe and Mother Earth agreed that you were needed on Planet Earth at this very moment. You agreed to incarnate, under the conditions you chose, to fulfill a mission on Earth during your lifetime. You agreed with other beings that you would all be on Earth together and that you would assist each other in fulfilling those missions by being the person you agreed to be.
NOW is the moment. TODAY is the day. Do you feel that you are being the person you incarnated to be?
When you are focused on urgent and important activities you might allow yourself to get distracted from what really matters to your Inner Being. Are you so busy that you are not being ‘you’? Are you so distracted that you are feeling disconnected from your purpose? These are the signals that you must take control of your choices on a daily basis and line up your energy with your values.
Have you ever examined your values? Not just what you think you should write on a list that someone else might read, but we are talking here about your deep, essential core values, the ones that drive your life. Your unconscious mind is operating based on a structure of values that might not match that list you would show to another. It is a good thing to periodically examine the list that your unconscious mind adheres to. It is also a good thing to think about what you would like your values to be and to examine your daily expenditures of time to see if they coincide.
Many people slide through their days taking care of urgent things but never getting to the items that feel important to them. Are you one of these people?
And what value structure are you using to decide what is important? Is it truly your own or have you adopted someone else’s list without questioning if this is in consonance with your own values? This is easy to do, especially when you are in relationship with another person or people. But it is essential that you pause and study how you are spending your time. Are you giving an amount of time to what really matters that matches its value to you?
Think about these things as you go through your day today. Who decided what is important for you today? And how much time do you have for what is really important to you? Take time for yourself, for apportioning your time according to your values is a sign that you are living a Conscious Life.


MUSE-INGS: It’s always about the energy! by Rosemary Bredeson
November 23, 2010 — RosemaryPeople seem to be growing more sensitive to energies and noticing the energy of a group can really be a protective measure. I’ve noticed that some groups seem to shift energies from comfortable to dynamic to uncomfortable [for me] and sometimes it’s hard to pinpoint what is happening. Groups of 3 people can have a dynamic based on who wields more power in that trio while huge groups of 200 can have an amorphous energy that feels benign in the large group but contains many subgroups that have their own dynamic. Have you seen this in the groups in which you participate?
When you are sensitive to the energies around you, you might find yourself gravitating toward those people and groups whose energy patterns are compatible with yours. You might also find yourself moving away from groups, even those you have been a part of for a long time, when the energy feels as if it has shifted and no longer supports you or your personal growth. This is happening for a lot of people with churches and organizations that, at one time, served them but no longer do so.
People grow. At least, Conscious People grow. For those who are pursuing a life of evolutionary consciousness, many groups complete their purpose in a person’s life and that person must make a choice about whether to continue to associate with the group or to move on. This does not always have to be painful or difficult or done in anger or sadness. This is just the path of an evolutionary person. Just as you do not stay in grade school for your whole life, some associations complete their usefulness for your personal growth and you ‘graduate’ from them. The graceful way to leave these groups is to bless them on their own way while accepting that your path parts from theirs on the journey.
Have you ever seen someone stay a part of a group only to criticize and complain about that group? Doesn’t that make you wonder why they stay a member? And what about families that get together for a holiday celebration but the individuals can’t wait for the so-called ‘celebration’ to be over so they can go to be with their friends? At times, a group or even a family no longer supports one on one’s journey. It might take a lot of energy to move out of a familiar group or to decide to spend less time with a family that makes one feel uncomfortable. One alternative to leaving is to see if the group is willing to shift its energy into a space that feels more comfortable to the person considering leaving.
This can be a tall order but it can have dramatic results. In some cases, just pointing out that old patterns have jumped up again and that perhaps they don’t belong in the 21st Century gathering can cause people to reconsider their behaviors. Sometimes you can simply ask to be treated differently. I’ve seen this work with people who tease and joke to the point of causing emotional pain to another but, when requested, stop acting that way. It might be helpful to think ahead to a gathering where you anticipate feeling uncomfortable and ask yourself how you wish it were different. Energize that different picture of the gathering, and believe that you can ask others to participate in the new vision.
And even if others don’t want to change the situation, it might be that gaining a perspective on what is going on helps YOU to change how you feel about the situation. Understanding the energy of a group and how it depends on the energy that you bring to it can give you new insights into your participation in that group. Decide that you can shift or they can shift or you can drift away.
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