Use the Good China – Richard’s Commentary

True confession time: I am an inveterate procrastinator. I have been all my life. Maybe it’s my Leonine nature; with a birthday in August I definitely have some cat-like tendencies toward an independence from all those things waiting to be done.

And here’s another confession: when we unpacked the “good China” during our most recent move-in we tucked it away in a cupboard over the refrigerator – a rather difficult to get to area – because we don’t use the good China!

So, what’s this post of Rosemary’s about; and what do I take away that it might be good to consider?

The key paragraph that speaks to me is this one:

When you are connected to your inner wisdom and your spirit guides, you can check in to see what your next step is. Sometimes the message might be to capture the idea and then schedule it, even if it is not to be acted upon today. But often we challenge or question the energy of the guidance and step back to analyze until we have moved away from pursuing the action.

Yes, there are certainly times when I do “step back to analyze” and then the opportunity slips away and the guidance for the “next step” is ignored. This is the downside of procrastination. But here’s the thing: I do receive and hear a lot of guidance. And yes, often what I do with that guidance is put a task on my to-do list. In a sense this is putting it off; however, I do use my task list to get things done.

Lists really work for me. I learned yeas ago that if I can get a task listed and scheduled it will get done. It may not even get done on the day I first schedule it (the procrastination habit is tenacious!); but it does get done. This is my solution to my “Leonine procrastination” trait.

So, then I look at Rosemary’s comment on “Universal Flow” – When you follow the energy of the idea you receive then you are staying in the flow of the creative energy that comes to you from your connection to Universal Flow. She actually implies that when we are in this flow perhaps we are not procrastinating at all! She also implies that it’s OK to put off, even ignore the “shoulds” our egos present to us!

I often do have the sense that I am in a kind of flow, a rhythm in my life. And when the list of tasks obtained from guidance is used to channel the flow of my days I feel good, accomplished and content. And I have long since given up the idea that my task list for any given day will be exhausted. I have accepted that it’s OK to slide a task to another day; and sometimes tasks even drop off the list when they are overtaken by other tasks or they lose their importance within the flow. Perhaps those dropped tasks were in the “shoulds” category!

When I am in flow, in the rhythm of life I tend to feel productive; tasks get checked off, others get moved, some even dropped. An “old tape” may start up in my head accusing me of procrastination. But, if I really examine my life and accomplishments, maybe I’m not such a bad procrastinator after all!

What drives your life? Do you let your ego over-schedule you with shoulds then beat yourself up with labels like “procrastination”? Go inside for guidance. Listen for direction and list the tasks you can undertake to move in that direction. This moves you into flow and purpose!

Meanwhile, maybe I’ll get that good China out this weekend—for just the two of us!

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EXPLORATION BY ROSEMARY: Use the Good China!

Don’t put off until tomorrow what the Universe wants done today!

Pay attention to the signals you receive that something is calling to you to be examined today. You might feel it as a flash of insight, a thought about a person you might contact, a picture of something, or a nagging feeling about something on your to-do list.

When you are connected to your inner wisdom and your spirit guides, you can check in to see what your next step is. Sometimes the message might be to capture the idea and then schedule it, even if it is not to be acted upon today. But often we challenge or question the energy of the guidance and step back to analyze until we have moved away from pursuing the action.

What ideas have you had for something to do that you have analyzed yourself away from doing?

There is a difference between paying attention to the signals from the Universe and procrastination. When you follow the energy of the idea you receive then you are staying in the flow of the creative energy that comes to you from your connection to Universal Flow. Learn to discern this energy from ‘shoulds’ that your ego presents to you from old tapes that are playing in your unconscious mind!

Procrastination is fighting against the feeling that the Universe wants you to pay attention to something and you are choosing to ignore that signal. Did you know that procrastination could take a lot more energy than following the flow?

I’ve learned that lesson! Sometimes it’s important to delay a project until the time is right, but it is very easy to put off tackling something because we feel afraid to face ourselves in that situation. Many of my clients are working from a space where there is an unexamined belief that holds them back from displaying their magnificence. It might be an ‘I’m not good enough’ or ‘who am I to think I can do this?’ or ‘what if I fail?’ belief that is stopping the flow, holding up the action.

YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH!!! Let me state that unequivocally. The Universe is very wise and doesn’t give you a task that you are not ready to accomplish. The creativity that brings you flashes of insight is a force that is presenting solutions, even if you are not sure of the problems yet.

All you are being asked to do is to pay attention. In every moment you are being shown signs that reveal the Universe to you. When you are paying attention to the signs, your next step is to take action on those that require it of you.

If you are unsure about the action to take, if the road doesn’t seem clear to you yet, then ask for help and guidance from someone who can see the road ahead for you. This is why it is so important to learn to get in touch with guidance, whether through a counselor or your own inner guidance. Invite the angels to reveal to you what you are to do. Talk to your guides.

And if you feel the urge to use the good china for hot dogs and beans, then do so! Take the action that you feel led to take!

PS: Are you waiting to hear Guidance from The Other Side? Are you looking for advice from beyond the usual? Join Rosemary for Satsang, this Saturday, October 19 at 7:00 PM Eastern. If you are in Maryland, join us in person. Or, join us by televideo conference or simply by phone. Learn more and Register Here.

INSPIRATION FROM ROSEMARY: Are You Holding Yourself Back?

My “Two-Minute” video for the week: Are You Holding Yourself Back?

PS: Are you waiting to hear from The Other Side? Are you looking for advice from beyond the usual? Join Rosemary for Satsang, this Saturday, October 19 at 7:-00 PM Eastern. If you are in Maryland, join us in person. Or, join us by televideo conference or simply by phone. Learn more and Register Here.

WHERE’S ROSEMARY?

Here’s where you can find me over the next few weeks:

***Satsang with Rosemary*** 
Saturday Evening, October 19, at 7:00 pm in Severna Park, MD and online via Video Conference

Rosemary is beginning a new series of teaching and channeling experiences for everyone! If you have spiritual questions, if you want to hear messages from other dimensions, if you are curious about life beyond this physical, three-dimensional world, join us for a unique experience! This is an interactive gathering; come with your questions. Rosemary will teach and channel for part of the time and answer your questions at the end of the evening.

We’ll be at 503 Evergreen Road, Severna Park, MD 21146 and online via Video Conference.

Here are the Details

***A Conversation with The Other Side*** 
Friday, November 1, 2013, Severna Park, MD and online via Video Conference

I am hosting a Conversation both in-person and online on All Saints Day just after Halloween when the veil between our reality and The Other Side is vey thin. If you want a message from a loved one, an angel, a spirit guide, this is the best time of the year to hear it!

Get Details and Register Here

***Celebration*** 
Saturday Evening, November 2, 7:00 pm, Severna Park, MD

Rosemary and Richard are hosting a Spiritual Celebration in their home, beginning the First Saturday in November. Come join with us as we create ritual space, offer teachings and celebrate life! Bring a snack to share.

We’ll be at 503 Evergreen Road, Severna Park, MD 21146. Details on the November program will be available shortly. Email your interest by responding to this Ezine!

Learn more here

***Unlocking the Mysteries of Intuition***
Thursday Evenings, November 7 and 14, at 7:00 to 8:30 pm Eastern, Severna Park, MD

Rosemary is beginning a whole new series of classes on Unlocking the Mysteries on the first and second Thursdays of each month. The classes will go from 7:00 to 8:30 pm both nights.

The first class is in November and we’ll be exploring Intuition. The class will be interactive with lots of hands-on, experiential projects. We will be going deep with this class! There’s lots more detail on my website.

Classes will be held at 503 Evergreen Road, Severna Park, Maryland 21146. You may want to reserve your seat early as space is limited.

Get Details Here

***Qigong with Richard*** 
Monday Evenings Through November, Severna Park, MD

Richard is beginning a new set of classes Monday evenings through November. He is teaching Level 1 Form and Five-Element Form Qigong. I’m there to practice the forms too. Monday evenings, 7:00 to 8:00 pm. Join me for this wonderful approach to body movement and meditation: the ancient Chinese martial art-form of Qigong. It is a gentle yet very effective body practice that is easy to learn and do, anywhere. Join the class anytime; give it a try for free!

We’ll be at 503 Evergreen Road, Severna Park, MD 21146.

Get Details Here

I hope to see you soon!

NEWS FROM ROSEMARY

30 DoradusWe’re enjoying Autumn coolness and rains that make us bring out the warm comforters at night. I love when the seasons turn and something different is around the corner.

October brings with it the start of holidays with Halloween/Samhain/Celtic New Year at the end of the month. Columbus Day is celebrated in the US on Monday, October 14 this year, which is our daughter’s birthday, and she was born on the holiday when that Monday was the second one in October. Our son has a birthday on October 13 so it’s a big family week! As we approach Halloween remember that the veil between the worlds is thinnest at this time of year and that’s why the traditions celebrate the connections now. (Think ‘ghosts’!)

The Mexican Day of the Dead is on the second of November, which is All Souls’ Day in Christian traditions. I’ll be offering a Conversation with The Other Side on Friday, November 1,(called All Saints’ Day) in Maryland and online for anyone who would like to communicate with a loved one who has crossed over or to receive guidance from a spirit guide or angel. These are always fun to do around Halloween! Please join us. Click Here for details

This week is the week leading up to our next Full Moon on Friday, October 18, at 7:37 p.m. Eastern Daylight Time. This will be a powerful one as it includes a Lunar Eclipse, with the Sun in Libra and the Moon in Aries and the Earth casting it’s shadow over the Moon. We’ll be receiving the most pure Moon energy with it blocked from reflecting the Sun’s powerful light. We are invited to shift our consciousness to a higher level and to pay special attention to our inner emotions – what is it time to release?

I’m excited to share so many offerings in the coming days! I wish all of you lived in the Maryland area so that you could join us in person in our new location. On October 19 we’ll be holding our first Satsang with Rosemary in the Center for A New Alliance, our new home space. This will be available online as well, though, so those of you at a distance can join us via videoconference. This is your opportunity to hear general guidance from The Divine Feminine about the energies of this month and time and what you should prepare for. You will also be able to ask questions and receive answers. I’ll also be doing some teaching so it should be an information-filled evening. More info here

Check out the calendar below to see where I’ll be and what else is coming up soon!

And I continue to enjoy the cake-decorating class that grandson Joshie and I are taking. He’s been amazing! (I’ve been baking cakes and making icing between client calls, then he does the decorating in the class. Fun!) I highly recommend making memories with your loved ones – don’t put it off!

Have a delight-full week!

You are a Multi-Dimensional Being! – Richard’s Commentary

Rosemary’s post begins with a message from The Divine Feminine in which they say:

We are The Divine Feminine and speak to you from the Realm of The Divine Feminine. This is one of the Dimensions that you have been hearing about.

There is nothing scary about dimensions or the beings that inhabit them. Our role in coming into your life is to assist you in your path of personal growth.

So, in casting about for my response today, to this message about being “multi-dimensional” I decided to take them at their word to see if I could hear a message from them. Actually I have received one or two messages from this “realm” in the past when I ask them for help, guidance or support. So, why not ask them to comment, through me, on their own message with additional illumination?

And I received a very interesting message of my own from this realm. I repeat much of it here because it demonstrates my own multi-dimensionality and perhaps it can model for you how you, too, can access this or other extra-dimensional realms if you ask!

From The Divine Feminine:

Dear one, of course we will speak to you! You are our beloved. You care for us as you care for Rosemary. You know there is a male component to us, just as there is to Rosemary. You mirror that component for us just as we mirror the feminine component of you. This is what your blog, Men and the Goddess, is all about. You men need us as that mirror. We are the Yin to your Yang, the Moon to your Sun. You need us to absorb, reflect, soften and affirm your very being. We need you for your strength, your action, your sending out the energy that animates it all.

The Goddess is in you just as the God is in us. We are inseparable yet dual. We inter-penetrate one another, affirm one another, in fact, manifest one another. And there is the problem with the dual nature of existence, of consciousness, just as there is a necessity to it. Often there is an imbalance in our natures. In you men, when the masculine over-powers the feminine, there is too much action, too much aggression. When the feminine over-powers the masculine there is too much inaction, too much passivity. The mirror image of this imbalance is true for women.

Balanced men offer the greatest hope for human survival and the evolution of consciousness. Balanced women offer the same hope. Partnership between such men and women offer extraordinary gifts to humanity. You, in partnership with Rosemary, model this balanced duality of purpose and power. Together you begin to restore balance in the energetic realm.

Now, this is not to dismiss The Divine Masculine. They too need their outlet and their balance. It is true that we are now in the forefront because the balance toward the masculine power has been so over-weighted as to almost lose sight of purpose! But as the work proceeds to restore this balance a restoration of appropriate masculine power will be needed for right action to emerge. This is your work. This is your calling. The work you envision with men is part of this restoration of balance. Working with the Tao and Qi is a way to help with balance. The ancient wisdom of China holds the keys to balance. They, the Taoists knew the importance of The Feminine, The Divine Feminine.

Keep to the path. Always return to balance.

And so it is.

Well, I did ask! Now I have to be congruent with the message I received! How does this message speak to you?

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ROSEMARY’S EXPLORATION: You are a Multi-Dimensional Being!

Let’s hear what The Divine Feminine say about this:

“Dear Ones,

We are The Divine Feminine and speak to you from the Realm of The Divine Feminine. This is one of the Dimensions that you have been hearing about.

There is nothing scary about dimensions or the beings that inhabit them. Our role in coming into your life is to assist you in your path of personal growth.

You can think of us as your Higher Self, that Voice of Wisdom that you hear on the inside. Some might call our messages ‘Intuition’ and that is fine, for no matter how you label the guidance that you receive, the important thing is to discern and to heed that guidance.

Consider that you are living with a Conscious Mind and an Unconscious Mind at this very moment. Your Conscious Mind is thinking about the words that you are reading and your Unconscious Mind is keeping the systems of your physical body operating without your conscious involvement. In this very same moment your Higher Conscious Mind is connecting you to spiritual dimensions that afford you the opportunity to learn and to grow and to expand your awareness and understanding.

Are you so focused on your physical experience that you are ignoring the information coming to you through your Higher Conscious Mind? Sometimes the messages are subtle, such as those contained in your nighttime dreams. Sometimes they are what you might label as ‘coincidence’ or ‘synchronicity.’ And sometimes the messages are attention-getting in their impact on your life, such as an illness or accident or relationship upheaval.

Most assuredly, however, there are messages available to you from the many Dimensions in which you dwell.

Some people have easier access to the information in these Dimensions than others and we speak through them to get the message out to the broader audience. All of you, though, have the ability to perceive messages for yourself when you listen to the guidance you are already receiving.

When we say that you must use discernment this is not to scare you or to make you concerned about so-called ‘negative energies’ or the source of your guidance. The means of discernment are simple. How do you feel when you receive the information? Does it make you feel uneasy because it contains judgment or criticism or invites you to do something about which you feel uncomfortable? Is that discomfort because you are being invited to stretch your comfort level into a new expansions of your personal growth or is there a moral component to your unease?

True guidance contains wisdom that leads you in the direction of your personal growth and spiritual expansion. You will never feel judged or criticized by a guide who is helping you to grow because every experience is a growth opportunity. If you feel uncomfortable it might be because your beliefs have led you to interpret as truth an old tape playing from your history that has nothing to do with your current lessons.

It is helpful to consult with someone who can assist you in creating clear connections to your guidance and to help you learn to discern the guidance that you can act upon and that which is coming from your beliefs and ego.

Keep thinking of yourself as a multi-dimensional human and you will learn that you have access to information, guidance, wisdom, help from many sources.

And so it is.”

Rosemary comments: Trust that you have the connections you need to be guided in your life. If you don’t feel you can hear the guidance, ask for help!

ROSEMARY’S INSPIRATION: You are a Multi-Dimensional Being!

My “Two-Minute” video for the week: You are a Multi-Dimensional Being!

WHERE’S ROSEMARY?

Here’s where you can find me over the next few weeks:

***A Community of Transformation – ACT*** 
Sunday, October 13, 2013, 2:00 to 4:00 pm ET, Edgewater, MD

I am the featured speaker at the October ACT meeting. My topic is Unlocking the Mystery of Your IntuitionJoin us to experience this very special group of sojourners in the Annapolis area. And if you can’t join us you’ll be hearing much more about the subject of my talk soon!

Here’s more information

***Satsang with Rosemary*** 
Saturday Evening, October 19, at 7:00 pm in Severna Park, MD and online via Video Conference

Rosemary is beginning a new series of teaching and channeling experiences for everyone! If you have spiritual questions, if you want to hear messages from other dimensions, if you are curious about life beyond this physical, three-dimensional world, join us for a unique experience! This is an interactive gathering; come with your questions. Rosemary will teach and channel for part of the time and answer your questions at the end of the evening.

We’ll be at 503 Evergreen Road, Severna Park, MD 21146 and online via Video Conference.

Here are the Details and Registration Page

***A Conversation with The Other Side***
Friday, November 1, 2013, Severna Park, MD and online via Video Conference

I am hosting a Conversation both in-person and online on All Saints Day just after Halloween when the veil between our reality and The Other Side is vey thin. If you want a message from a loved one, an angel, a spirit guide, this is the best time of the year to hear it!

Get Details and Register Here

***Celebration*** 
Saturday Evening, November 2, 7:00 pm, Severna Park, MD

Rosemary and Richard are hosting a Spiritual Celebration in their home, beginning the First Saturday in October. Come join with us as we create ritual space, offer teachings and celebrate life! Bring a snack to share.

We’ll be at 503 Evergreen Road, Severna Park, MD 21146. Details on the November program will be available shortly. Email your interest by responding to this Ezine!

***Qigong with Richard***
Monday Evenings Through November, Severna Park, MD

Richard is beginning a new set of classes Monday evenings October 14 through November. He is teaching Level 1 Form and Five-Element Form Qigong.I’m there to practice the forms too. Monday evenings, 7:00 to 8:00 pm. Join me for this wonderful approach to body movement and meditation: the ancient Chinese martial art-form of Qigong. It is a gentle yet very effective body practice that is easy to learn and do, anywhere. Join the class anytime; give it a try for free!

We’ll be at 503 Evergreen Road, Severna Park, MD 21146.

Get Details Here

I hope to see you at one of our events soon!

NEWS FROM ROSEMARY

stellar fireworksWelcome to the change of seasons! Here in Maryland we’re experiencing the last throEs (I hope!) of hot Summer temperatures as we flirt with 90 degrees again. At least the nights are cooling off a bit. The leaves are just starting to turn colors and I look forward to their beauty in a few weeks.

Have you felt the effect of this Old Moon? We have! A little cranky, a little unwell, and a little distracted. (Confession: I discovered that I had been wearing my shirt inside out for a few hours today! Fortunately, I had not seen anyone. Then I heard that my son-in-law had done the same thing today, but worn his shirt to work that way. Ahhh, the Old Moon at work again.)

Be happy that today, Friday, October 4, 2013 the Moon joins the Sun in the sign of Libra and we have a New Moon at 8:34 p.m. Eastern Daylight Time. Everything shifts with a New Moon. Think of the symbol for Libra – the scales. What in your life is asking you to seek balance? Where can you share more love and beauty and peace? The New Moon invites you to shift your thinking, to manifest your desires through balance, not through ‘lack consciousness.’ Enjoy the New Moon by doing a ritual to bring in new energies of balance in your life.

We’re very excited that we’ll be offering some new events after this New Moon! On Saturday, October 19 at 7:00 p.m. Eastern Time we will host Satsang with Rosemary! Join us to hear me teach about spiritual topics that are important on that day and I will also channel/share a message from The Divine Feminine. Attendees may ask questions of me and/or The Divine Feminine, either personal questions or general/universal questions. In these turbulent times, it is good to reach into this other dimension for guidance and wisdom! I hope you will join me in person in Maryland, but, if you live at a distance, you can join the video conference online. No matter how we connect, you will be able to ask your questions! More information is here on My Website.

And remember that we are approaching the Celtic New Year at the end of the month (also, Halloween) so we’ll be doing a Conversation with The Other Side on All Saints’ Day, November 1 to connect with guidance and loved ones who have crossed over. These Conversations are small, intimate gatherings and each attendee receives a personal message of guidance. Check out the details here.

I have to share that I have started taking a cake decorating class with our grandson, Josh (11), and we’re having a great time! He watches ‘Cake Boss’ on TV and is loving expressing his creativity this way. What do you do that takes you away from your worries and work and gives you great delight? What can you share with a loved one that means a lot to both of you? Make a memory with this New Moon!

May you experience balance, beauty and peace in your life this week!