Dear Ones,
Where there is doubt, let there be Light, for the Light chases away doubt. Doubt comes from dark thoughts, from believing that one is separate from the Light. Doubt begins because a seed has been planted like a weed in a garden of Light. If the seed of doubt is watered and fertilized it takes over the garden, just as a weed does.
You must make sure that you are not watering and fertilizing the seeds of doubt that blow into your personal garden of Light. Sometimes these seeds come from society and societal beliefs, sometimes from people in your life. Sometimes they develop from previous life experiences that are not truly representative or relevant to your current situation. Be aware that doubt is the enemy of enlightenment. Doubt chokes out the Light that is unfolding within you.
There is only one purpose in doubt – it points to the place in your life that is begging for attention. Do you doubt that you can be successful? Then examine how you are limiting or even sabotaging your own success. Do you doubt that you can have healthy relationships? Then examine how you are not in a healthy relationship within yourself, or how you can be or become the kind of person/partner you wish to attract. Do you doubt that you can find happiness or even that you deserve happiness? Then examine your definition of happiness and ask if you are looking outside yourself for something that must come from within.
Do not doubt, Dear Ones, that you are less than perfect just as you are, for that which you might label as an ‘imperfection’ in yourself at the moment is merely the pointer for your current lesson.
Conscious Living demands that the individual live a self-examined life. To slide through life without honestly examining one’s inner existence, inner workings and the choices one makes leads one away from happiness and fulfillment. Human beings have an awareness of Self that can lead to extraordinary leaps of consciousness when they look for growth through that awareness and understanding. Many, though, choose to live in denial of their own power to effect the course of their lives, preferring instead to give away that power to external sources.
You are not a canoe with no one to paddle and steer, being carried through life by the flow of the river. No, you are the one with the paddles, choosing your life’s direction in every moment. You choose whether to go with the flow or paddle upstream. You choose how to avoid obstacles or go through them. You choose which branch of the river to follow when you reach a fork. Do not hand those paddles over to someone else. Do not doubt that you are in charge of the direction of your life.
You may not be able to control the weather or the obstacles in your path, but your life is not controlled by those. Your Life is how you respond to those things over which you have no control.
Never doubt that you always have choices about how you respond to challenges. If you allow doubt to control you, then you are giving away the paddles of your canoe.
Keep paddling. Open yourself to guidance. Look at challenges as information, as opportunities for growth, for there is great Light awaiting you on the other side of every lesson. Claim your own power and seek the Light. You will always be rewarded for making this choice.
And so it is.


MUSE-INGS: What is your unconscious mind deciding for you?
August 31, 2010 — RosemaryIt seems as if we’re always being told to examine our thoughts, our beliefs. That’s not as easy as it sounds.
I’ve worked with people who are literally shocked to discover some of the things that they believe. Our unconscious minds are powerful helpers in our journey of personal growth, but with that power comes an ability to derail our best efforts, the decisions we make consciously but without the agreement of our unconscious minds.
Does this sound difficult to believe? Let’s look at how powerful that unconscious mind can be.
You can breathe without thinking about it, right? You don’t go around telling your heart to ‘Beat Now, and Now, and Now,’ do you? Somewhere in your system is a controller taking care of all those systems so you don’t have to make a conscious decision to get your heart to beat or your lungs to expand. So why shouldn’t that ‘controller’ be making other decisions for you? Like how you will respond to a stimulus that is similar to what you experienced when you were 5 or 7 years old? What about that knee-jerk reaction you had? Did you consciously choose that or did it come from somewhere else?
Prejudice comes from training in our youth. In the show, ‘South Pacific,’ they say that you must be carefully taught to hate. But once those seeds of hatred are planted, you might not even know that you believe that someone ‘should be hated.’ Or what about those family stories that plant a seed about who you are supposed to be? ‘Our family always does…….’ [fill in the blank]. There can be some powerful beliefs ingrained in us as children that we don’t even recognize are at work.
And so, as adults, we go along thinking that we are in charge when the truth is that our unconscious minds are holding onto beliefs and thoughts about ourselves and the world that might not be valid anymore. The bogeyman under the bed might not actually be there but the little child within might still be afraid of a strange situation.
How do we use this information in our adult lives? The first place to start is to examine what we believe. In every situation, the question to ask is, ‘Is what I believe about this situation true?’ When we are responding to a particular stimulus, we can ask ourselves if the response is appropriate in this moment or is our unconscious mind adding on some data from previous experiences that might not apply right now. This ability to ask questions of ourselves is the first step to living a conscious life.
And we must question what comes at us and to us from outside sources. If you are told something that doesn’t feel right, pause and ask yourself what it is exactly that you are feeling. What, within yourself, is not resonating with this information? Or what IS resonating with this information, and can you believe something new or contrary to what you believed before?
These questions only help us if we have already started to examine ourselves. Being on a path of personal growth invites us to become aware in every moment of our own thoughts and beliefs. For some, this might require help at first, especially in clearing away blocks held in the unconscious mind and difficult to unearth for examination. The good news is that the more you practice examining your thoughts and beliefs the easier it is to continue. It rapidly becomes a way of life as your understanding deepens of the intricate relationship of your conscious and unconscious minds.
Personal growth is the path to bringing more Light into your life. Embrace the journey. Do the work. Examine what you believe, both consciously and unconsciously, and grow.
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