Every moment in your life is the perfect NOW for the NEW. Do you realize this? Whenever you find yourself putting something off, waiting for that perfect time, when everything else makes way for that new thing, that new energy, THAT is the time to catch yourself and pause with this question in mind – “Exactly why am I waiting?”
Are you waiting for someone else to line up to support what you are doing? Maybe you can find a way to do it yourself, or to shift a bit so that you can at least get started on the project. Are you waiting for the stars to align, the budget to support, your calendar to open up? Are you waiting to lose weight, gain weight, change your wardrobe, change houses, get a new car? Are you waiting to find the perfect _____ [fill in the blank]?
Lose this ‘wait’!
This moment NOW is the only moment you have. Everything you need is here in this NOW. Every resource is within you to make happen that which you need in your life. Creativity is within you if you allow it to be expressed. Resources are available if you open yourself to guidance and seek resources that you think you don’t have – where else can you seek them? How can you modify your plans to use what’s available? Who do you need help from? Can you permit yourself to ask for the help you need? What is ONE STEP that you can take in this moment NOW that will bring you closer to your goal?
If you find yourself resisting these words, then ask yourself if you have been waiting to start something because there is a block or obstacle in front of that something. Are you using as an excuse something that is keeping you from facing the real obstacle to moving forward? Do you really need to have all the resources lined up first or can you start and then find the rest of what you need? Do you really need to lose weight, find help, have a new car or can you find step one to get the energy flowing in the direction of what you desire so that the rest can follow? Are you focusing on the cart and letting the horse struggle at its tethers when it really wants to get moving?
What project, idea, program has been coming to your mind as you read these words? What is one step that you can take NOW to move in the direction of that idea? If we asked, what is one thing that you wish you could do that for some reason you have not started yet? Would it be all right with you if you allowed that to get started?
Starting is the hard part. Deciding to start can be even more difficult. If there is an excuse why you can’t start, then look at that excuse and ask, “What is behind this excuse?” Are you hiding from some personal work that needs to be done before you move forward? It is easy to look at calendars and budgets and lack and say that these are the reasons that you cannot begin something, but they do not serve your forward motion in life.
Examine yourself. Examine your life. How have you been holding yourself back because there is some personal growth or spiritual work that is waiting to be done? When you determine that this is the place to start, you will be amazed at how easily the rest follows!


MUSE-INGS: What is your unconscious mind deciding for you?
August 31, 2010 — RosemaryIt seems as if we’re always being told to examine our thoughts, our beliefs. That’s not as easy as it sounds.
I’ve worked with people who are literally shocked to discover some of the things that they believe. Our unconscious minds are powerful helpers in our journey of personal growth, but with that power comes an ability to derail our best efforts, the decisions we make consciously but without the agreement of our unconscious minds.
Does this sound difficult to believe? Let’s look at how powerful that unconscious mind can be.
You can breathe without thinking about it, right? You don’t go around telling your heart to ‘Beat Now, and Now, and Now,’ do you? Somewhere in your system is a controller taking care of all those systems so you don’t have to make a conscious decision to get your heart to beat or your lungs to expand. So why shouldn’t that ‘controller’ be making other decisions for you? Like how you will respond to a stimulus that is similar to what you experienced when you were 5 or 7 years old? What about that knee-jerk reaction you had? Did you consciously choose that or did it come from somewhere else?
Prejudice comes from training in our youth. In the show, ‘South Pacific,’ they say that you must be carefully taught to hate. But once those seeds of hatred are planted, you might not even know that you believe that someone ‘should be hated.’ Or what about those family stories that plant a seed about who you are supposed to be? ‘Our family always does…….’ [fill in the blank]. There can be some powerful beliefs ingrained in us as children that we don’t even recognize are at work.
And so, as adults, we go along thinking that we are in charge when the truth is that our unconscious minds are holding onto beliefs and thoughts about ourselves and the world that might not be valid anymore. The bogeyman under the bed might not actually be there but the little child within might still be afraid of a strange situation.
How do we use this information in our adult lives? The first place to start is to examine what we believe. In every situation, the question to ask is, ‘Is what I believe about this situation true?’ When we are responding to a particular stimulus, we can ask ourselves if the response is appropriate in this moment or is our unconscious mind adding on some data from previous experiences that might not apply right now. This ability to ask questions of ourselves is the first step to living a conscious life.
And we must question what comes at us and to us from outside sources. If you are told something that doesn’t feel right, pause and ask yourself what it is exactly that you are feeling. What, within yourself, is not resonating with this information? Or what IS resonating with this information, and can you believe something new or contrary to what you believed before?
These questions only help us if we have already started to examine ourselves. Being on a path of personal growth invites us to become aware in every moment of our own thoughts and beliefs. For some, this might require help at first, especially in clearing away blocks held in the unconscious mind and difficult to unearth for examination. The good news is that the more you practice examining your thoughts and beliefs the easier it is to continue. It rapidly becomes a way of life as your understanding deepens of the intricate relationship of your conscious and unconscious minds.
Personal growth is the path to bringing more Light into your life. Embrace the journey. Do the work. Examine what you believe, both consciously and unconsciously, and grow.
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