Dear Ones,
A Conscious Life demands that an individual be aware at all times of their thoughts, their feelings, the effect of what they are saying and doing on others, and the impact that every thought they hold has on the Universe at large. One cannot live a Conscious Life while ignoring others around them nor can one choose to be a ‘greedy hermit,’ one who chooses to think only of themselves and to gather what they can to themselves without concern about the greater good of All or the impact to others.
This means that, if you wish to live a Conscious Life, then you must find compassion within your heart as you go about every decision in your day.
Compassion goes far beyond giving alms to the poor or volunteering at a homeless shelter. Compassionate living requires constant attention to the people around you and those who will be impacted by your actions. Are you throwing trash on the floor that someone later must bend over and pick up? Are you expecting service from a restaurant worker and leaving a small tip or none at all? Do you celebrate that a clerk in a store made an error in your favor on your bill, forgetting or ignoring the fact that that clerk must pay that difference out of their own pocket?
And how do you treat the people you live with? Are you more courteous to your co-workers than to your family? Do you excuse rude behavior at home because you are tired from working all day? Do you have time for those who ask it of you, like a spouse or child or parent or friend? Or are you constantly finding excuses to avoid giving your time to others who might want or need it?
What do your thoughts in a day say about your level of compassion? When you pass someone in need, do you help or offer help or do you get angry at their being in your sphere? What kind of energy are you sending out with your thoughts of and toward others? How do you feel about debates in your society? Do your decisions, about politics or contributions or choosing friends, come from a place of genuine compassion for others or do they stem from prejudices, fears, intolerances?
All of these questions can lead you to an understanding of how a person who is living consciously does not compartmentalize compassion. When you choose a path in life that causes you to find fault with others, to criticize, to avoid interactions with those whom you deem unacceptable, according to some arbitrary criteria, then you are choosing a path away from the Path of Compassion. You might not even realize that you are making this choice but moving through Life in an unconscious manner causes you to lack compassion because you are unaware of the needs of others.
Practice compassion in your Life. Look around you with open eyes. Evaluate what you are doing and thinking by expanding your awareness to all who will be affected by your actions and thoughts. Really take the time to listen to others, to hear their hidden messages as they share with you. Become aware of your voice, your tone, your look when you communicate with another. Are you sending out the energy of caring and compassion or are you discounting that person? Are you in a conversation listening to the other person or are you busy thinking about what you want to say, or what you think, or what all this means for you?
The ‘greedy hermit’ thinks only of what they want, what they think they need. This kind of greed blocks the compassionate energy that all humans are born with. Little toddlers will try to share or to comfort or to help. When they learn to differentiate themselves from others they start to use the term ‘mine’ to try to define themselves and to learn where their boundaries are. If raised in a compassionate environment, they will continue to share and to care about the feelings of others. But if they are raised to grab all they can for themselves without regard to the consequences to others then they will learn to put on blinders and to shut down natural compassionate urges.
Model compassion for all around. Care. Listen. Share, especially yourself. As you give this sharing energy into the Universe, the Universe will respond with the same kind of energy toward you. Sharing keeps you from becoming a ‘greedy hermit’!


MUSE-INGS: “Greedy Hermit or Compassionate Conscious Being” by Rosemary Bredeson
January 25, 2011 — RosemaryWell, I, for one, do not want to be a ‘greedy hermit’!
And, yet, sometimes it feels greedy to just want a little time alone when there are so many demands being placed on our time and energy. How to strike a balance?
The first way to do this is to get in touch with what is going on inside you in this present moment. Asking yourself how you feel, what’s happening inside with relation to outside, is an important tool to cultivate. Oftentimes we go through our days on a sort of autopilot that keeps us from being really aware of the energies within and around us. We plow through our to-do lists, going from one project or activity to another. How many times have you said to yourself or others, ‘In a minute…’? Can you find a way to pause and be fully present to this moment NOW?
When we pause and take a breath into this moment we are connecting with our body and our own energy and there is a lot of information available to us through this connection. When we are aware, we can sense our feelings and the energies of those around us. The more you practice this skill the greater will be your awareness of these energies.
For example, if you are blithely going through your day and yet a co-worker or spouse or child is struggling with their day, do you take time to notice? Or are you so wrapped up in your own stuff that you are oblivious to that struggle? It is not a judgment against you if the answer is ‘yes’ but this could be your wake-up call that sometimes you need to come up for air and, like a submarine’s periscope, scan the horizon for what is going on around you.
Do you participate in conversations or discussions without really listening to what others are saying, verbally and non-verbally? Maybe you can start checking on yourself every so often to see where your attention has been and bring it back to connecting with those around you.
Watching your language, your tone of voice, making eye contact, your body language – all of these awarenesses can lead you to improving the connections that you have with others. With more information about what is going on with the other or others, compassion can rise up in your heart and you can offer that energy in response to what is going on. If you are clueless to what is happening around you, then you cannot connect to compassion. And you want to.
Compassion is a very high frequency energy that is important to the world today. The more we can share that energy the more the Planet can benefit. One compassionate act can also bring others along with it. The compassionate one can bring awareness to the clueless, can move the ‘greedy hermit’ into consideration of others. Compassion can be contagious! Wouldn’t you like to be the Typhoid Mary of Compassion?
Make a commitment to yourself that you are going to spread compassion this week wherever you find yourself. At a gathering, look around for the person who seems lonely or alone and chat with them. At home, look at the others in your household and really see them. Ask questions and stay interested in their answers. On the street or at the mall, try walking around smiling at people, saying, ‘Excuse me’ if you bump into them, or even if they bump into you. Ask the server at the restaurant how they are doing and listen to their answer. Spread compliments [heart-felt, please!] everywhere you go. If you are looking for something to compliment you will not be focused on finding fault.
Become more aware of others and of what is going on inside you. Awareness brings consciousness and compassion can spring from that. See what it feels like to keep yourself in this high frequency energy!
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