“Tap into Your Inner Guidance” A Commentary from Richard

Rosemary’s Video and “Exploration” this week offer an excellent way to gain insight into our life, the direction our life is taking and even a method of acquiring that guidance, like our GPS systems acquire the satellites to help us navigate along the highways. And she makes it sound so easy, doesn’t she!

Well, for men this isn’t always the easiest thing to do. In Taoist understanding men have a lot of yang energy, active energy to go out and get things done (even if we are unsure of what it is we are to do at times!). Women have a lot of yin, passive energy to go inside, go quite and seek answers to “what is to be done” – and then to be receptive to what comes in the way of guidance. Taoists teach balance and seek balance between yin and yang energies – receiving and acting. And this is the core of Rosemary’s teaching this week.

It’s important to seek this guidance for a number of reasons; the most prominent is to be sure we are on the route of our “Soul Purpose” our raison d’être. Rosemary throws this out as a given…that we know what our Soul Purpose is, and that we seek the inner guidance to assure ourselves we are on the correct path. But sometimes what we have to seek is that Purpose itself!

Do you know your Soul Purpose? Do you know the answer to your “Big Why?”

Perhaps the answer to this question is the first one to seek inside.

In her commentary Rosemary offers a way to go inside and to get the answers to the big questions. Breathe, tune-in, stay quiet and listen. Listen for any answers, signs, symbols, that come up. Assess these. Separate out the ones that seem judgmental, are coming from ego rather than some deeper place. Note the yin approach to this inner inquiry. It often works quite well for men and women alike.

There are also yang approaches to gaining the guidance our soul urges on us. Rosemary has offered to share additional tools in future videos and commentaries. I look forward to these! Meanwhile I’ll share an approach that has worked well for me.

A number of years ago I read The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron. I can say that a few books have changed my life; this is one. I follow a practice recommended by Cameron to write out three long-hand pages of text every day, preferably first thing every morning. Cameron calls these “morning pages.” This practice works for me. And it is a way for me to “tap into my inner guidance.” Note the yang, active approach to this method. The guidance comes as I empty my mind and simply write what comes. In a way it is like “following the breath” in meditation practice; I follow my pen…

There are many ways to seek inner guidance. Active, passive, with words, symbols, studying our dreams, following our breath. The key is to first quiet the mind, the ego, to do the listening, active or passive; then to trust the guidance and follow it. And this is why we call it “practice.” It’s a life-long pursuit!

 

 

 

 

 

 

PS: In addition to the many tools to tap into our inner guidance there are ways to determine and expand on our Soul Purpose. Rosemary offers an incredible and comprehensive approach to this through Scientific Hand Analysis. If you are unsure of your Big Why? check out the details on Rosemary’s Website

EXPLORATION: Tap into Your Inner Guidance

Did you know that you have an internal Guidance System that is like a GPS for your life?   It’s there and it’s always available, but you must learn to crank up the volume and trust the guidance you receive.

Unlike the navigation system [or SatNav, as our friends in other countries call it] in your car, your internal GPS really DOES know the best route for you to take through your life.  This is the guidance that keeps you on track for living your Soul Purpose.  It’s important to learn how to turn this guidance system on.

The first step to tapping into your inner guidance is to take a deep breath and bring your attention to your inside being, your inner self.  When you focus on deep breathing you energize your inner being and begin to disconnect from the outer turbulence we call ‘life.’

After a few deep breaths, bring your awareness to your heart area so that you are connecting at a deeper level than at your conscious mind, which will only distract you with ‘what ifs’ and ‘how abouts.’   Your goal here is to get to the guidance that is connected to your higher self so that you can ‘see’ the road ahead of you without worrying about the distractions around you.

Now ask your question.  If you feel the answer in a feeling or a sound or a vision, then just stay with that until you understand the message.  Sometimes the answer comes as a soft voice speaking in a way that you can understand.  Sometimes it is a symbol that you can interpret by examining it further.  Sometimes the message is very clear and sometimes it is subtler.  But there is always a message, for even if you don’t experience a message, the answer might be ‘Pause’ or ‘Wait.’

You’ll know you’ve reached guidance that comes from a higher vibration than your ego if the message is neutral, that is, devoid of emotion or judgment or ‘should.’  Guidance that starts with ‘You shouldn’t have…’ or ‘What were you thinking of…’ is from the ego and not your highest self, so keep seeking a deeper connection if you start to feel yourself judged in any way.

It usually takes some practice to be clear about the inner guidance you are receiving.  I’ve worked with some clients who, over time, learn to catch themselves in that self-judgment so that they can avoid the trap of beating themselves up for mistakes.  There are no mistakes, only LESSONS.  If you keep repeating an action and getting the same results, then you are stuck in the same lesson.  Look around for what you are to learn.  When the time is right, you will get it!

We once drove a rental car in California from the Napa Valley to Big Sur and decided that we wanted to take the Golden Gate Bridge instead of the freeway on the other side of the water, which is the route our GPS [affectionately called ‘Nuvi’ after the model name] preferred that we take.  Can you hear that voice saying ‘Recalculating’ every time we ignored Nuvi’s advice?  After about 5 ‘Recalculatings,’ and I’m certain I heard her voice getting more and more disgusted, Nuvi finally said, ‘There IS a better route available!’ [Emphasis Nuvi’s!]

Our inner guidance never gets that judgmental!  We just keep plodding along and our inner guidance system quietly ‘Recalculates’ to keep bringing our lessons to us.

Take some time this week to practice tapping into your own inner guidance system.  There is a lot of good information available there about the road ahead.  And there are lots of tools that you can learn for additional ways to tap in.  Stay tuned for that information!

VIDEO MYSTIC MESSAGE: Your Inner Guidance

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WHERE’S ROSEMARY

Yes, the first event posted here happened last Friday evening. And it was a great Conversation! I’ve repeated it here because I channeled a special message for my husband and partner, Richard. You can view the video of the recording on his blog, MenandtheGoddess.com. Simply click the link below.

And I’ve got a busy couple of weeks scheduled as well as the next Conversation with The Other Side in a few weeks time:

***Hosting A Conversation with The Other Side***
Friday, November 2, 2012 7:00 to 9:00 pm Eastern

November 2nd is traditionally known as The Day of the Dead. It comes just after Halloween and the Celtic New Year, Samhain, when the veil between our world and The Other Side is the thinnest! I like to choose this time for a Conversation because so many of our loved ones are near!

And it was a great Conversation.

Click here to review the recording of Richard’s message

Click for the details of the next Conversation. It’s scheduled for December 7, 2012 at 7:00 pm Eastern.

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***eWomenNetwork Luncheon – Montgomery County, MD Chapter***
Thursday, November 8, 2012 11:30 to 1:30

Join me at this great monthly event and meet some wonderful women entrepreneurs as we network and help one-another grow and excel!

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***Ashana Concert***
Saturday, November 10 at 6:30 pm Eastern

If you’re in the Annapolis, Maryland area, please join us at the Ashana Concert, sponsored by A Community of Transformation [ACT] on November 10th. Ashana creates magical transformation with her singing bowls and angelic voice.

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I hope to see you at an event soon!

 

 

 

PS: If you are a US Citizen be sure to vote tomorrow, November 6!

NEWS FROM ROSEMARY

What a week!!!  We started with a Full Moon during the height of the Frankenstorm Sandy with no electricity.  Last Monday night was the first WOW Call [Wisdom Of the Week], on cell phone by candlelight.  Made it through two  nights and into third day before the electricity came back on, charging cell phones in the car in rotation so someone had an active one at all times.  At least we had advance notice and were prepared!

This huge storm could have been much worse for us. Many people are still without power as I write this. Some houses were damaged when trees fell on them. Lives were lost. Livelihoods are threatened. Lower Manhattan is a dark portion of New York City waiting for the power to be restored. And New Jersey is in terrible shape.  We, here at home in Maryland, sustained no damage and really didn’t suffer much while being disconnected from our 21st Century conveniences. Papa Richard fired up the outdoor grill [we had filled up the propane tank before the storm] and heated water for tea, cooked scrambled eggs, toast, pancakes and dinners for us, sometimes out in the rain and wind! We sat around and played Scrabble and Uno with the grandkids with candles and lanterns lighting the way. Everyone wore sweaters as the temperatures dipped but, blessedly, weren’t too cold. It was okay.

So what could preparing for your life do for you?  Are you counting on everything being available to you when you want it?  Do you wait until the last minute or are you ready for anything that comes your way?  Tap into your Inner Guidance and learn what is important for you to do today!

In career, business, relationships, life, we are always facing something new.  With the clients I work with regularly, there is always new guidance or some subtle hint about what the next step is.  Do you know what YOUR next step is?

Take some time to look at your current path and ask if it is leading you in the direction you desire.  Today is All Souls Day on the Christian calendar and The Day of the Dead in Mexico, honoring those who have gone before us.  Please join us TONIGHT, Friday, November 2, 2012 for an online Conversation with The Other Side where you can get guidance for today from an angel, spirit guide or loved one who has crossed over.  We always have fun at these educational events, and this one is ONLINE so you can join us at 7:00 pm Eastern from anywhere in the world!  Get more info here!

If you’re in the Annapolis, Maryland area, please join us at the Ashana Concert, sponsored by A Community of Transformation [ACT] on November 10th.  Ashana creates magical transformation with her singing bowls and angelic voice.  More details here: www.ACTAnnapolis.org

Mercury goes Retrograde on Tuesday, November 6th, at 5:57 pm Eastern Standard Time.  This means that the Planet Mercury appears to be traveling backward when viewed from Earth for the following 3 weeks.  Mercury, the planet of communications, messes things up when it’s going backward, so be very careful about contracts and conversations.  What does this mean on the US Election Day?  Well, I would vote early and read your ballot questions carefully, preferably before you go to the polls.  The last time Mercury was pulling this stunt was the 2000 Presidential Election where the Supreme Court decided the outcome of that election. [Mercury was turning direct on Election Day.]  Just be careful!

Remember the free WOW Call [Wisdom Of the Week] EVERY MONDAY evening at 8:30 pm Eastern Time!  Be sure to register so that you can get the call-in info to join us as I channel a message from The Divine Feminine about the energies of the week and guidance for each of us to hear.  These are informal, 30-minute calls just for you to check-in to the wisdom.  Hope you’re with us next Monday!  You don’t have to register each week. Register once and use the same call-in numbers every Monday that you can be with us.

 

 

 

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“How’s Your Health?” A Commentary from Richard

Here is this week’s commentary from my partner, Richard:

In her Video and Commentary this week Rosemary asks a broad question about health. On the surface this may seem to be a simple, straightforward question. For the most part when we think of our health we immediately scan our physical bodies for anything that may be signaling a pain or illness. But probing the question of our health is a much deeper subject than that first reaction!

We have four bodies, at least! And Rosemary addresses each of them in her commentary posted yesterday. For optimum health we need to “treat” each of these bodies and balance them. For men this can be a real challenge!

Last week I wrote of the emotional body and one emotion I am particularly familiar with, Anger! In Taoist philosophy the ancient Chinese identified five primary emotions and their correlating virtues. For example Creativity is the virtue corresponding to Anger. The other four emotions are Anxiety, Worry, Fear and Grief. Treating these emotions and moving them, transforming them to their virtues is the work we must undertake at the emotional level to achieve a healthy emotional body that in turn supports the physical body’s health.

Today let’s look at Anxiety, a serious emotion affecting so many of us in Western Society. Here in the US we are nearing the end of a polarizing National election. And in the Northeast US we are cleaning up and recovering from a devastating storm, Hurricane Sandy. This election cycle has seemed to go on forever! And with the long prediction of Sandy’s potential as an historic storm, it seemed larger than any storm could live up to; yet for many, it did! Just holding the energy of these two intertwined events is sufficient emotional strain to give the healthiest person a severe case of Anxiety!

What do we do?

Anxiety is often associated with our place in society, our standing within our family, group, tribe, nation, world. It is about who we are; it is deeply connected to self-esteem issues. Using the Tao as guidance, the emotion of Anxiety is associated with the heart and small intestine; it is the Fire Element emotion. The virtues that correspond to Anxiety are Connection and Joy, clearly virtues of the Heart. Moving Anxiety to Joy is a natural transformation as we work on our place within the human family, recognize the importance of that place, our being in that place and the Connection we have with others from that place. And once we have that Connection, deep Joy is there for us. The process here is remembering our own connections. “It’s a Wonderful Life” that famous Christmas Capra movie, is an excellent reminder of just how connected we are in this life and how vital to the overall scheme we are.

The process is reasonably simple: breathe into your Heart Center. Visualize a ruby red light streaming in to your chest to cauterize the wounds inflicted by Anxiety and transform those wounds to Connection and Joy. We are humans, a connected species. We live in groups and survive through cooperation and connectedness. Anxiety is created through our sense of
disconnectedness. Breathing the color Red in to our Heart Center restores this sense of togetherness in all of Life’s experiences.

My 15-year-old granddaughter just came down to visit and to apologize for her over-reaction to an incident around the dinner table this evening. I accepted and in turn apologized for my own over-reaction! It reminds me of our connection; our heart-connection. Family, friends and neighbors, communities, cities, states, countries…we are all connected. We can transform our Anxieties through remembering all of our Essential Connections and taking great Joy in those Connections!

PS: Tomorrow, November 2, just in time for All Souls Day, the Day of the Dead, you are invited to a Conversation with The Other Side! Rosemary brings in the Energies, Loved Ones who have crossed over, Angels, Spirit Guides, all manner of extra-dimensional beings during this time when the veil between the worlds is at its thinnest! Join me! Learn more here!

EXPLORATION: How’s Your Health?

I’m writing this as I sit in a doctor’s office while my daughter sees a surgeon about having her gall bladder removed.  It’s sobering to see your loved one in pain.

So I’m thinking about the pain that so many people have, every day, because their health isn’t what they would like it to be.  Not just physical health, but also emotional health, mental health, spiritual health.  It’s so important to be healthy on all levels that just focusing on the physical doesn’t lead us to the life of our dreams.

What’s the last thing you did for your emotional health?  Are you looking at your life for keys to the blocks that you are experiencing?  Have you mined the past on your personal timeline to learn the lessons of your experiences?  Are you developing new tools for your responses so your knee-jerk reaction isn’t where you get stuck when something happens in your life?

How about your mental health?  Have you examined the tapes that play in your head for their source and to decide whether to keep them playing or to change them?  Do you know what negative thoughts are popping up and keeping you from growing into the person you were meant to be?  Are you holding yourself back from your greatness because you think you can’t be great?

And your spiritual health is most important because the beliefs you hold affect all the other levels of your being.  Your beliefs affect your thoughts which generate your emotions and, finally, present as physical health problems if you haven’t cleared them.  Oftentimes, beliefs come from our childhood or our family tree or our environment [society, teachers, churches, etc.].  They have not been generated consciously but are sourced in the unconscious mind.

What do you believe about yourself?  Might there be a belief that ‘Everyone in our family gets arthritis by the time they are 50’?  How about ‘No one from this neighborhood gets to go to college’?  These unconscious beliefs operate to restrict us whether we are aware of them or not.  Have you examined what you believe and made a conscious choice about holding onto that belief or releasing it?

At the physical level, you must choose to live in balance with all of your other levels.  Are you eating in a way that matches your beliefs about food and its sources?  Are you making physical choices based on unconscious emotions or thoughts that conflict with what is best for you?  Do you ask yourself questions about your life and its balance when something presents as out of balance?

Many people can look at stress in their life and see the imbalance that is caused there.  Too many believe that they can’t do anything about stress.  But what they are really saying is that they don’t know what to do about the stress that they can’t change.

Things happen.  We react.  Then we choose our response to the event.  That’s what life is.

And if we can’t change the things that happen, then we have to look at our reactions and our responses.  This is the first place to build up our took kit so that we can live a conscious life and choose wisely our responses to events.  This FOLLOWS doing all the other work to bring our beliefs, thoughts, emotions into balance.

When I spend a Muse Day with a client, where we have a whole day together to clear blocks and make plans, we often spend most of the day on the clearing blocks part of the agenda, checking in on the spiritual, mental and emotional levels.  Creating a plan for the actions to take in the physical plan is often the easiest and quickest part of the day because we’ve brought every thing else into balance before we start the planning.

Trying to plan without the balance brings frustration and much harder work.  Trying to deal with dis-ease without finding the source of the imbalance makes the task much more difficult, if not impossible.

Our daughter will be fine.  She’s been working through many levels of what is happening.  I’m sorry she’s going through the proverbial ‘2 by 4 to the head’ experience but haven’t we all had some of those?  We learn!

And I hope that you, too, will examine the levels of your being for where imbalances live.  Clearing those can really help you move the pain out of your life!

PS: This Friday, November 2, just in time for All Souls Day, the Day of the Dead, you are invited to a Conversation with The Other Side! I’ll be bringing in the Energies, Loved Ones who have crossed over, Angels, Spirit Guides, all manner of extra-dimensional beings during this time when the veil between the worlds is at its thinnest! Join me! Learn more here!

VIDEO MYSTIC MESSAGE: The Steps to Balance

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***Wisdom of the Week***

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***Hosting A Conversation with The Other Side***

Friday, November 2, 2012 7:00 to 9:00 pm Eastern

November 2nd is traditionally known as The Day of the Dead. It comes just after Halloween and the Celtic New Year, Samhain, when the veil between our world and The Other Side is the thinnest! I like to choose this time for a Conversation because so many of our loved ones are near!

This event is offered online for your convenience. It is a video conference so you can see me and receive your messages from loved ones, angels, guides and spirits.

And we always have a great time!

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NEWS FROM ROSEMARY

Have you heard about the coming ‘Frankenstorm’?  It’s the main topic of conversation around the East Coast!  Hurricane Sandy, an early Winter Storm, and some very cold air from the North, are all supposed to converge this weekend and storm for 5-6 days, with heavy rains, big winds and snow.

What do you do when this sort of news arrives?  This is what ‘being in balance’ is all about.  Do you freak out?  Run to the store?  Call everybody you know to talk about it?

I commended our granddaughter, Makayla, on paying attention to her intuition yesterday when she brought up preparations for a bad winter storm.  Think she was tuned in to something?  She made a shopping list of supplies for us.  So here’s the formula: get the intuitive hit, explore, act on it.  It all comes from trust.

So as we move forward with our Frankenstorm preps here in Maryland, we are also looking at a busy week.  Full Moon on Monday, October 29th at 3:50 pm Eastern Daylight Time.  Full Moons, when the Moon is opposite to the Sun, bring us the energy of getting rid of what we don’t need anymore.  This can be letting go of old beliefs and negative thoughts that no longer serve us as well as ‘stuff’ that we don’t need to keep in our environment  What are you ready to release?

[Full Moons also bring extra high tides here on the Chesapeake Bay – just what we need with a Frankenstorm!]

Wednesday is Halloween, a time for ghosts and goblins and kids going Trick or Treating.  Will you dress in a costume for the day?  Halloween is the hallowed evening before All Saints Day on the Christian calendar, November 1. The following day is All Souls Day and, in Mexico, the Day of the Dead.  This period is also Samhain [pronounced ‘sow-wen’] which in the Celtic calendar is the New Year and a time, too, when the spirits can visit from the dead.

In honor of all the traditions acknowledging that the veil between the worlds is thinnest at this time, I’m offering an ONLINE Conversation with The Other Side on Friday, November 2nd, at 7:00 pm Eastern Daylight Time.  In these fun and educational events, each participant receives a personal message from an angel, spirit guide or loved one who has crossed over.  I will also do some teaching about what happens when we die.  VERY limited enrollment so that every attendee gets their own message!  Here’s where to find more information and to register: Join Us!

FREE MESSAGE CALLS EVERY MONDAY!!! Dial in and receive the Wisdom of the Week on the free call every Monday at 8:30 pm Eastern Time.  Starting this Monday, October 29th, I’ll be channeling a message for you to get your week started with a WOW [Wisdom of the Week].  Spend a half-hour with me on Monday evenings and plan your week with special guidance.  We’ll be talking about the Full Moon next week, and whatever else The Divine Feminine want you to know.  Please join us on Mondays for this tapping into wisdom!  Sign up here to get the call-in information.

If you’re in the Eastern US as we are, the let’s pray that this storm doesn’t do the damage some are anticipating.  I happen to love storms but only when I’m safe inside watching them and the power stays on!  That’s what I’m hoping for, with everyone staying safe.

Happy Halloween! May you receive more treats than tricks!