Many people live in such great fear that they cannot see the Light when it appears all around them. They are searching for the darkness, searching for that which they most dread, and it is as if they have blinders on, preventing them from seeing what is good and gentle and friendly in their environment. It is very difficult to get these people to open up to the Light available to them because their vision is too narrow to embrace it.
There are others who allow Life to happen to them. They are passively awaiting the next experience, wondering what will happen, planning to react but not making the effort to be proactive. These people are suffering because they do not feel empowered to create their own life. These are the ones who can be taught that they can take action to bring their Life into focus when they claim the power to do so.
Still others are vigorously fighting their own Life Purpose. They are in denial about why they came to Planet Earth, who they incarnated to Be. These people project onto others the lessons that are theirs to learn. They work at their lives without finding any joy in daily activities. They seem to run in the other direction from growth opportunities. Some of these are so hardened that they deride others who are on a path of growth. It is a difficult situation when one must deal with these people because they are negative in their perspective and they do not support the growth and progression of others if it interferes with their plans.
Those who are learning their lessons, who embrace the creative energy involved in making Life be a fulfilling collection of lessons, who seek to manifest their Life Purpose on Planet Earth, are the ones who can find joy even when Life looks darkest. These are the ones who see other people as fellow journeyers, not as impediments to plans. These people know how to smile from their hearts, and how to feel Love and to offer Love in their daily lives.
Which are you? Do you recognize a part of yourself in these categories? Do you see a past ‘you’ in one of them?
Looking for the lesson in your experience gives you the power to grow, the power to make the lesson the important aspect of this moment, not the circumstance. Do you realize how powerful you can be when you can step up above a circumstance to see it in relation to a bigger picture? This is how one learns the lessons contained in an experience. Open yourself up to learning something from what is going on in the present moment, for Life is always about this present moment. Worrying about tomorrow or yesterday drains your energy and takes you away from the lesson and the personal growth available in this present moment.
Allow yourself to focus on your growth, which supports your Life Purpose. Allow this moment to be a gift for you, no matter what the circumstances are. Are you ill? What is the message in the illness for you? Are you worried about finances? How are you deciding that you lack support? Are you feeling that things are going well for you in this moment? What can you learn from that and who else can you help?
There is always a lesson for you. Keep learning the lessons and you will keep growing. Create your Life to be in consonance with your Life Purpose. Be who you came to Planet Earth to Be.


MUSE-INGS: Choose your focus – and laugh?
August 3, 2010 — RosemaryFocus on the beauty? Not so easy to do when things are looking bleak or when our attention takes us down a rabbit-hole into the space where everything is ugly.
But have you ever noticed how, when you DO focus on something besides ugliness, you can actually feel uplifted? Have you ever been really down and had a little child come up and give you a hug? There is true beauty in that hug, even if it’s full of mud or comes with a bouquet of weeds. Or have you been feeling sorry for yourself, feeling lonely, and had a friend call out of the blue and invite you out?
We really can control our thoughts when we become aware of our power over them. We all have knee-jerk reactions to situations or problems or even joy. Becoming Aware [with a capital ‘A’] means learning to assess those knee-jerk reactions and making a conscious decision about how to act next. A thought does not have to hold us in its grip without letting go if we choose not to allow it.
Sometimes thoughts do come unbidden into our consciousness but the important thing to learn is to process the thought and ask:
What is this?
Is this true for me now?
Is it in my highest good to hold onto this thought at this time?
Unbidden thoughts often stem from our insecurities and they masquerade as the reality of the moment but we must ask ourselves if they are actually true in that moment. We can worry all we want about the next tornado or earthquake or hurricane but if the sun is shining now isn’t that what is real? Isn’t that where we can find the beauty? We can always worry about something that might happen but if it is not true in this moment then there is something else to look at, to think about, something else on which to focus our attention.
Look around you today and see if you are focusing on the thoughts that are uplifting or if you are attaching to those thoughts that bring you down, that distract you from the beauty of the day. Even if you are wrestling with a problem today, can you find something of beauty to think of for a moment? Scientists are now saying that smiling can make us feel happy – it’s not just the other way around! Try looking in the mirror when you are focusing on problems and force yourself to smile. I guarantee that you will either laugh at the way you look when you are worrying and/or laugh at the way you look when you force a smile. That single laugh will shift your body’s energy and allow the Light to come through in that moment.
That is an important shift, for allowing the Light to shine also brings with it resources that better equip you to find a solution to your problem. You are more resourceful with the Light in you than when you shroud yourself in darkness.
So go ahead and let your thoughts drift across the sky of your mind while you choose which ones on which to focus your attention. And if you need help, remember to look in the mirror and laugh a beautiful laugh!
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