Change. The word keeps popping up, it seems. And some of us really don’t want any changes while some of us want everything to change. How do you feel at this moment? Is there something you would really like to change but don’t know how? Or do you feel that you can’t, for whatever reason, make the change you desire because of repercussions or what other people will do/say?
Let’s agree that if we want to change we will figure out a way to do so. For example, if you are wanting to change the way you eat but you have a family with whom you eat meals at home, what are you doing about your desire to eat differently? If you don’t do it, then ask yourself if you are giving your power away. If you really want to change, you can find a way to modify the food served so that everyone can be happy. What else do you want to change that would only require a small shift in your thinking in order to facilitate that change? Maybe the only shift is from “I can’t” to ‘How can I?”
When we are told that there is energy of change around us and we will be supported, then this is a good time to examine our lives in depth and honesty to determine what we wish were different. I know the things I would like to do differently but maybe I use the other members of the household as an excuse to avoid making changes. Do I really want to change or do I think I ‘should’ change? That’s a good question to ponder, for if I really wanted to change maybe I would have done so already. And if there is something I want to change I can go ahead and do it, when I am feeling personally empowered.
It all comes down to where my personal power resides. Do I reach inside and tap into my own inner power or am I /have I given away my power to someone external to myself and I am allowing that to determine my current direction?
Once I have examined these questions I can make a conscious decision about how to move forward. It seems to me that the times are coming when each of us must stand on our own while remaining connected to all others. This is a skill that too many of us have not yet developed. What is in my own highest good while I am considering the highest good of all? This represents a delicate balance but awareness starts with self-awareness. And self-awareness starts with self-observation. Until we can learn to become dispassionate, nonjudgmental observers of ourselves, we cannot claim our own power and change ourselves and our lives. The first change we must make is to observe without judgment and make our choices in that context.
And we must also learn that introspection is a good practice to cultivate. Go inside and become acquainted with your inner, authentic self. Are you pleasing others by ignoring how you really feel? Are you operating under the influence of decisions made in your childhood? What motivates you? Are you constantly aware of parts of yourself that you are denying or are you accepting of yourself in your totality?
Practice asking yourself if what you are observing is real. Is this true? You might surprise yourself with your answers. Learn how to get in touch with what is real for you in any given moment. If you need help doing this, then work with a nonjudgmental counselor who will help you find the ‘you’ behind the mask.
As we approach change, in our own lives and in the Planet, we must be careful to be authentic and honest with ourselves. The time is now to do the inner work and to find our own inner power. Empowered individuals can revolutionize the world.
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MUSE-INGS: Empowerment and Change
June 29, 2010 — RosemaryChange. The word keeps popping up, it seems. And some of us really don’t want any changes while some of us want everything to change. How do you feel at this moment? Is there something you would really like to change but don’t know how? Or do you feel that you can’t, for whatever reason, make the change you desire because of repercussions or what other people will do/say?
Let’s agree that if we want to change we will figure out a way to do so. For example, if you are wanting to change the way you eat but you have a family with whom you eat meals at home, what are you doing about your desire to eat differently? If you don’t do it, then ask yourself if you are giving your power away. If you really want to change, you can find a way to modify the food served so that everyone can be happy. What else do you want to change that would only require a small shift in your thinking in order to facilitate that change? Maybe the only shift is from “I can’t” to ‘How can I?”
When we are told that there is energy of change around us and we will be supported, then this is a good time to examine our lives in depth and honesty to determine what we wish were different. I know the things I would like to do differently but maybe I use the other members of the household as an excuse to avoid making changes. Do I really want to change or do I think I ‘should’ change? That’s a good question to ponder, for if I really wanted to change maybe I would have done so already. And if there is something I want to change I can go ahead and do it, when I am feeling personally empowered.
It all comes down to where my personal power resides. Do I reach inside and tap into my own inner power or am I /have I given away my power to someone external to myself and I am allowing that to determine my current direction?
Once I have examined these questions I can make a conscious decision about how to move forward. It seems to me that the times are coming when each of us must stand on our own while remaining connected to all others. This is a skill that too many of us have not yet developed. What is in my own highest good while I am considering the highest good of all? This represents a delicate balance but awareness starts with self-awareness. And self-awareness starts with self-observation. Until we can learn to become dispassionate, nonjudgmental observers of ourselves, we cannot claim our own power and change ourselves and our lives. The first change we must make is to observe without judgment and make our choices in that context.
And we must also learn that introspection is a good practice to cultivate. Go inside and become acquainted with your inner, authentic self. Are you pleasing others by ignoring how you really feel? Are you operating under the influence of decisions made in your childhood? What motivates you? Are you constantly aware of parts of yourself that you are denying or are you accepting of yourself in your totality?
Practice asking yourself if what you are observing is real. Is this true? You might surprise yourself with your answers. Learn how to get in touch with what is real for you in any given moment. If you need help doing this, then work with a nonjudgmental counselor who will help you find the ‘you’ behind the mask.
As we approach change, in our own lives and in the Planet, we must be careful to be authentic and honest with ourselves. The time is now to do the inner work and to find our own inner power. Empowered individuals can revolutionize the world.
________________________
Please feel free to re-post this article and share it with your readers. All I ask is that you include the following information when you do: