Your life is Your Life! YOU are in charge of your life. If others are causing you to feel things you do not wish to feel then you must make a change. Sometimes that change is to move those people out of your life. If you are feeling that you have lost control of your life, then you must regain control by changing the way you think about yourself and your life.
Do not give your power away to others. It is an easy thing to do and can happen unconsciously in insidious ways. You can start by loving someone and wanting to be what they want you to be. Then you make choices to ‘keep the peace’ rather than to confront them about something that is bothering you. And then you think to yourself that you will change at some nebulous later date and bring up what is bothering you, but not just now. It doesn’t take long before you have given away your power to another.
Notice if there is anyone to whom you have given your power. Your partner? Your boss? Your child? Your parent? Your friend? This is not a judgment, Dear One, this is a time for you to observe yourself in your current life. And this is the first step toward living a Conscious Life – becoming the observer of your own life. Observe yourself without judgment. Notice your own choices and your own feelings. When you can observe yourself without judgment you give yourself the opportunity to grow. If you insist on judging then you will get caught up in the ‘shoulds’ and you will miss the possibilities.
Now, decide today that you will hold onto your own power to control your own life. This is a decision you can make that has nothing to do with other people. If someone says or does something that you do not feel comfortable with, you have the option of reacting to that with your own power. Decide whether or not you will let that in. And decide whether or not you will take action about the situation. Give yourself permission, from your own internal place of power, to choose not to take action, if you wish. Make sure that you are deciding from inside you.
We said that we would be there to help you. If you wish to make changes in your life or in yourself, you have only to ask and you will be guided and supported in making those changes.
The world around you is getting ready for some major changes. There will be power shifts in high places and individuals will be facing major decisions. The energy of change abounds and so this is a good time to make whatever changes you would like to make as you will be supported in those changes.
Reach inside yourself and search for your own inner guidance. When you decide to change, make the change that helps you to grow. This is a part of living a Conscious Life from the place of internal empowerment.
You are blessed and supported!

