Happy Holidays! There is so much to celebrate during this December and I hope you are enjoying your December. It doesn’t matter which holidays you celebrate (or none) December is a time for reflection on the past year and contemplation on the coming year.
How has your 2023 been so far? What have you learned? What lessons will you take with you into 2024?
Life really is all about learning the lessons presented to us. One of my favorite quotes is John Maxwell’s:
“Sometimes you win. Sometimes you learn.”
I would add that there’s always something to learn!
The New Moon on Tuesday, December 12 (6:32pm Eastern Time) is the time for setting intentions that will carry us over the threshold into the next year. What intentions will you be setting? What energies are you carrying over into 2024 and what are you ready to leave behind with the old year?
In the flurry of activity that accompanies this season, it is a good thing to sit for a bit and tune in to the energies of your life. Are you living the life you want to live, or are you waiting for something to happen/be done with/come to you before you can really live YOUR LIFE?
Here is the message for these times:
“Everyone is seeking connection. Most are seeking it to someone or something outside themselves.
“The true connection they seek is TO THEIR INNER BEING, THE SOUL, THE SELF.
“When a person discovers that what they have been seeking has been there inside all the time, they can feel a sense of relief and wonder and completion.
“There is no outside thing, group, action, or person who will make anyone feel ‘complete.’ Each person is already ‘complete’ within their own being.
“There can be, however, and often is, a feeling of being incomplete. Along with this feeling comes a need to ‘find that missing piece’ and this need leads to comparison to others, to the acquisition (of things, lovers, money, power, etc.) and to the belief that ‘If only …’ or ‘When I have ____, I’ll feel complete.’
“Oh, my dear one, you ARE complete. Yes, NOW. Exactly as you are in this moment. You ARE all that you need.
“If you have given away parts of yourself, reclaim them as yours. If you struggle with the belief that ‘I am not enough,’ release that belief. If you think that you will feel complete when you just have or do or get something or someone, release that thought now.
“YOU ARE COMPLETE just as you are NOW.
“You may need help in clearing out the closets of your mind where those old beliefs and thoughts live. Do it. Get a mentor to help.
“Change the story that you tell yourself about who you really are. Embrace all of you, all the parts, all the accomplishments, all the lessons you have learned and are still learning.
“Who would that ‘Complete You’ BE? What would the ‘Complete You’ DO?
“BE that. DO that.
“You are what you seek. You have what you need.
“BE that wonderfully unique you IN the world and FOR the world.”
When you accept that you are complete, you are enough, right now, you can choose to live the life you desire!
If you would like some help figuring out your plan for the life you desire, I am happy to help you start the New Year with some guidance. Sign up for a BEYOND QUANTUM READING on my website:
and I’ll help you with the discernment process to get you set up in January for a wonder-full 2024! Also, a Reading makes a wonderful holiday gift to a loved one who would like some guidance or connection to someone who is on The Other Side. Message me and we can arrange a Gift Certificate for you to use.
And if you are interested in a deep dive into your Human Design, who you are designed to be, and what strategies will help you to live the life you want to live, message me about having a Human Design Reading to start the New Year with great tools to take forward with you.
Enjoy this holiday season! Take time to reflect and rest. In addition to the New Moon on the 12th we have Mercury going Retrograde at 2:09 am Eastern Time on 12/13! A double-whammy week! Review – everything! Do all the Mercury Retrograde things you know to do AFTER you have set your New Moon intentions.
May you finish your 2023 lessons so you don’t have to bring them into 2024, and may you have an ease-filled time for the rest of this year.
Sending many blessings and much love and best wishes for a fun holiday season!






ROSEMARY’S EXPLORATION: Find Something to Celebrate
August 12, 2015 — RosemaryThere is always something you can celebrate, even if you don’t feel like celebrating. Seek it. Be on the lookout for something to celebrate all day long.
When you are looking for a celebration it is difficult to stay depressed or angry or sad. Of course, you can CHOOSE to say to yourself or to others, ‘My life is so bad that there is nothing to celebrate.’ Or you can choose to say or think, ‘I wish she would stop being so cheerful. HER life might have something to celebrate but mine doesn’t.’ And then you can list all the reasons why there is nothing to celebrate.
Well, let me clue you in. No one’s life is so perfect that they are not dealing with some issue in their life. It might be minor at the moment but it was and will be huge at some point.
Everyone loses someone they love at some point in life – a grandparent, a pet, a friend. Some choose to focus on the loss while others choose to concentrate on a celebration of the life that was shared, for a long time or a short time but always a valuable time.
Which kind of person are you? What do you choose to focus on when you experience a loss? Can you find something to celebrate?
I’ve been to funerals that were all about the loss and I’ve been to funerals that were huge celebrations of the person who has died. The second kind is more healing for those who attend.
This is not to deny the grief that arises when we lose someone we love. That grief is real and should be honored in whatever way is healing for the individual.
BUT, and this is a big but, you are always at choice about where you focus your attention, your thoughts, your energy.
Do you celebrate when things are going well for you or do you keep looking for the thing that is not going well and focus on that? Do you have some ‘magical thinking’ about the if/only’s in your life? What are you waiting for that when X happens you will be happy?
Start celebrating something, anything in your life today and watch what happens. Start setting your radar detector to seek that which you can celebrate and notice what starts showing up on your radar screen. The energy that you use for the search attracts that which you are searching for. Search for things to celebrate and you’ll find things to celebrate.
So how are you going to spend today? Choosing to focus on what’s not working or choosing to focus on what you can celebrate?
Celebrate YOU!!! Even if it is not your birthday, celebrate that you woke up this morning. That you can read or hear this message. That the Sun rises in the East every day, even when the clouds keep you from seeing it. Celebrate that you can go to Starbucks and get a ‘hello’ even if you don’t get a cappuccino. Celebrate someone else by contacting them just to say ‘hello.’
Surround yourself with the energy of celebration today and watch how many things you can celebrate tomorrow!